The exception being if it’s been listed for a long time. In that case I will start with ’”I know you said the price was firm, and I don’t want to get lumped in with the low ballers, but it has been listed for a long time”. Sometimes I’ll point out that these particular items normally sell pretty fast.
It’s worked a few times.
Interesting. You're right, there's no such thing as one rule for all such interactions.
I've developed my own set of rules (that I follow) with CL over the years, and have definitely missed out on items. My big one is not giving out my phone number until we've agreed on a place and time to meet. I have a "junk" email account that I use for buying stuff, and have never wrapped my head around what value that would have to a scam artist. However, my cell number, or especially house number, would be WAY more of a problem to have in the wrong hands, IMHO.
Funny story: The ONE time I broke my rule (because I really, really wanted this particular model of tractor, and the seller insisted on calls only), I ended up stuck on the phone with the guy for what seemed like an hour (was at least 30 minutes).
I really think he just wanted someone to talk to, because all I got was a runaround and eventually realized that he probably wasn't actually letting go of the tractor. Incredible conversation that went round and round: making dinner for his mother was mentioned, the tractor needed work before anyone could see it, etc.
I eventually got off the phone, completely bewildered, and went back to my email-only policy.
I always start with a list of questions to ascertain if the seller legitimately has the item. Not foolproof, but has been pretty reliable.
I don't do FB, but that's a whole different story.
Mike
























