Kirk, living in Australia taught me you can get used to anything if you choose to. Longest day of the year down under is four days before Christmas. Sunset on New Year's eve is at 8:09PM. On the flip side, the coldest it got in 1990 was 41°F (5°C) on June 30. Our place had no central heat (or A/C) even though it was brand new. Used space heaters in the bedrooms on those few really cold nights.I guess it's all what you're used to. I can't imagine not having the seasons. This is the first year in a long time where our winter resembles anything normal. When you get in a groove, it's actually easier to stay in it.
Andrew, sometimes I wish Craig and Shorty lived closer. They'd scare off a lot of snowbirds and potential nesters.I fully understand the job choosing the location. That's exactly how I ended up here in St Pete. But for many reasons I decided to stay, mainly friends and activities, but my current (retirement) work is also a help. We have it all from my perspective. Culture, health care, boats, and most of the year, climate. And all within a couple of miles from my home. Of course Florida also has trouble makers like Craig and Shorty, but I can more or less control their influence.
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Drives, we're on the other side of your issue. Both our children, our nine grandchildren and three great-grandchildren are within 50 miles of us and moving closer would probably alienate them more than they are already. They have Trader Joe's where they live but ours is 1.4 miles away from our house (a 4-minute drive when traffic is heavy or a half-hour walk).all our parents are alive still (mine 88 and hers are 84) and we live right in the middle sort of (20 minutes from mine and 45 from hers) so moving now is a bit tough even though i'd really like to get a big shop and move out of the city.
there needs to be a few things once we do move like you mentioned. health facilities are a must since we are now both 65 even though we don't go to the doctors much we do know the value of a good one when we need one.
Trader joes (our main store for groceries)
AND GOOD NEIGHBORS would be a Big plus cause I hear of a lot of drama involved if you have some bad ones.
it's pouring rain at the moment so the foot of snow is going quick, but i do feel sorry for those living near the rivers now.
take care and keep up the good work at Bob's garage (and shed, ...)
Michael, eleven months after I sold my soul to IBM they paid a big chunk of money for my eleven day hospital stay and surgeries. Then they re-trained me for a job that didn't require two hands and moved us to a new location including picking up closing costs for our first house (I was 21). After sending me all over on business trips, including an all-expenses paid two year stint in Sydney, they made me an offer I couldn't refuse. They never gave my soul back but when I was 49 they gave me a year's salary to quit working for them (and hired me back as a consultant for a year) and at 50 they gave me the full pension I would have received at 65 and lifetime medical benefits. I've been collecting my pension from IBM for almost 27 years so my soul wasn't that cheap.I went a different route I chose where I wanted to work. Had originally taken NYC cop test and was headed there. Then one day in a business management class in 1978 a guy said to me ever work on a race car? Two weeks later I was at my first pro race in Quebec City it was all downhill from there. decided that policing with different levels of dispensing justice was not as much fun as racing where the laws of physics reign equally for everybody.
Then my aunt was traveling internationally for business and education at times gone for months I was watching house and running race shops in area.
In 84 was assistant track manager at Bridgehampton I lived at the track, got to drive the track any time of day. Did a drunk driving test one night with a friend. Had many rides in races cars with famous people.
I stayed at more motels than I can remember slept at many tracks from camping to RV.
I had a habit of getting a racing client in March when season ended take a mechanical job that you would learn from bring current set of skills and look to learn. Then when it got warm again find a race program.
I always had flexibility to do something interesting than sell my soul to a large corporation.
In high school went to referee's camp became certified worked ten games minimum of 25 a game that was 20 hours I made 250+ every week. My dad worked in a union told me it was the way to go with life. He worked 40 plus ten hours overtime and took home a little more than 200 a week. It was a sore point between us.
I have always had fun and been on the edge. We are racing in Detroit also in 84 running a Super-Vee in the support race for Formula One race. Staying in the Detroit Athletic Club getting back at Ten pm I was told the only place to eat was Greek Town. Got directions and walked there on the way back I was stopped by the police and asked if I knew where I was. So I told him what I was doing. He tells me this is a very dangerous area, I said I am from NY.
Next night I do the same thing, different cop pulls up and asks me if I am the crazy New Yorker?
Philip, I never gloat about our weather because of Karma. The cold and snow might seem like a good deal when we are in our third week of no power with Africa-hot weather and piles of debris to clean up.Bob, isn't it grand to have this weather, and to read about the majority of the country freezing their butts-off? Of course, if the power is out, and there are hardships suffered, I sympathize with those people, having grown-up in the Snow Belt, but as a young adult, having made the decision to migrate to the S.E. coastal FL area. I like the access to the major airports, we've never used PBI, but choose between MIA and FLL (Miami, Ft. Lauderdale) depending upon fares, and we Uber to the airport. The last time I tried using a Yellow Cab, I waited over 40 minutes, I was in-danger of missing my flight, and I called another cab co, and never have used YC since.
One advantage of being in a higher-population area is access to good healthcare, and with my background in fire-rescue (EMS) I have lots of healthcare pros to-whom I can turn for advice. My wife, being Spanish-speaking, has surprised me with her acuity at accessing the healthcare system in a moment of need, though she was an electrical engineer by training/work. She always tells me, "I deal in facts," and her process-oriented way of thinking has helped us to be financially secure, and to be able to deal with health issues as we age (we are both retired).
I laughed at your remark about your in-laws "arguing loud-enough to be heard onshore as they swim the Gulfstream" to paraphrase, reading between the lines, I suspect it wasn't pleasant to be around them.
bj383ss's comment on a Samsung Galaxy S7 barely being of-use, well, I still have my venerable S7 edge as a daily-use phone, bought new. About a year and a half ago, I ordered a new screen, battery, headphone female plug, back, and camera and lens case cover. I replaced it all myself, and while I wouldn't want to try going swimming with it, I haven't had any issues functionally after the repairs. I dropped it and cracked the screen, despite it being in an OtterBox, and I'd noticed that the battery was not as-lasting as it had been, so I decided to spent the $ on the OEM parts, and tackle the work of replacing it. I assumed that if it "didn't take," I wasn't out a lot of $, and if it did restore its utility/functionality, I'd use it until it died or the network forced a change (5G?). I use it all the time to make shopping lists of things to-buy for projects, and taking a pic or two of something I need to buy, before I visit the Ace Hardware is common.
We have three houses for which I need to buy air handler and returns filters for, and opening the phone to see what sizes I need, while standing in the middle of the Home Depot wall of air filters is helpful in preventing purchasing mistakes. On occasion I'll buy a slightly-different size because they don't have the exact size I need. I cut it up to shorten/narrow it an inch, say, to make it fit. It's a good excuse to break-out the hot glue gun. I'm too-tacano (cheap) to buy those expensive $20 filters, and I try to replace 'em after the first of the month. The bills get-paid, the filter changes are made.
I recently spent a lot of time & effort clearing-out a house and I found a lot of things I'd lost-track of. One of those was my passport, which I'd renewed about a year ago. I also located a couple of interior trim parts for our S2000 which helped restore the good looks as I cruised up the I-95 express lanes to Hollywood yesterday. On the way back to Miami, in the afternoon before the evening rush hour, there was a totally-blocked express lanes accident, and it appears the accident was a bad one, as it made the evening news.
I am always amazed at the grand prix on the I-95 corridor in Miami-Dade, Broward, and Palm Beach Counties. If you drive the speed limit, people pass you on both sides. Regardless of how-fast you think you're going, someone will always want to pass you. Often as-not, it is a lifted 4x4 or a $$$ SUV on thick gnarled rubber, being driven by a tailgating speeder who never seem to bother with turnsignals, apparently use of them is a sign of low testosterone. If I can, I pull to the right, but if you're in the I-95 express lanes in the 1-lane area, there is nowhere to pull-right. Those are the times I pray, as those drivers are more aggressive than a #45 supporter looking for Pence in the Capitol.
I've been to Detroit for the Grand Prix multiple times, back in the '80's/'90's, and my friend who's retired from GM at the Warren MI Tech Center and I would attend, and swap stories about the drivers we had heard.
Walking around parts of Detroit there are areas you don't want to-be. https://www.history.com/topics/1960s/1967-detroit-riots I was attending college in MI in the '60's, and I took a trip to Detroit with a friend from campus, and as we got close to his parents' apartment, he told me this was the area where the riots were, several years before, and that if I wasn't with him, it would be very-foolish for me to be there, alone. Apparently different demographics.
Did you have a tough time getting enough straight boards for the workbench top? Are you using white pine? In my experience, Southern yellow pine is straighter, and stays more-stable in-use. Are you using biscuits with the 2X side, or the 4X side flat? I'd assume the 4X side flat. Are you gonna cover the wood with a piece of metal? That makes for an easy clean-up.
Makes sense you wouldn't use Palm Beach International to travel, considering how close you are to Ft. Lauderdale International. When I commuted to DC years ago it was a financial windfall for me. AOL paid me a premium to take care of my own expenses so I took advantage of $69 one-way tickets from FLL to IAD (Dulles International) and a return one-way to PBI for $69. Round trip to either Florida airport was around $300. The limo service I used charged the same $25 to get me to or from either airport.
If I used my Samsung it might get broken but it spends most of its time in the rack with the charge cable connected. Sometimes I take it with me to doctor's offices so I can read the paper.
I spend 90% of my drive time in Florida in the right lane because it ends up being the fastest lane. Seems like a lot of blue-haired people like the edge of the road closest to the driver's window visible because they can't see over the steering wheel. They feel safe there and assume no one ahead of them is doing 45. The few times I leave the right lane is to pass or avoid a crowded exit ramp.
I visited the Detroit area in the early '80s to recruit at the University of Michigan - Dearborn. Lived in Harlem for a summer and spent some late nights walking some sketchy streets in Chicago and DC. Probably safe because my hook was easily mistaken for something deadlier.
You have a choice of straight and damaged or warped and unmarked lumber these days. I would have chosen yellow pine but there was none at Lowe's. The white pine I chose was straight and I'll use it ugly side down. The bench itself is a place to mount things so it won't have a metal cover but I did use biscuits and gravy (err, glue) on the 2x10 edges. I'll post some project photos soon.
Kirk, you are absolutely right. I should mention that I am genetically a cold-loving Scandinavian but my wife is genetically an English/French/North Africa person so in weather below 80°F she is wearing two sweaters. I'm kinda stuck indoors today because it was 82°F with 75% humidity today. I wear long pants and pocket t-shirts regardless of the temperature (I don't wear shoes until it gets below freezing or I have to go to a stupid place that requires shoes).Feel bad for the people who aren't used to the cold, and are getting slapped by it. For us older farts who grew up in and love the north, this is just a return to normal, a normal we've really missed. Good to see the fluffy white stuff. Now the southern folks like Texas, we all need to pray for them. Now you'll have to excuse me. I'm off to plow my +6" of dandruff.
Mac, as much as they smoked and drank, I think the fighting kept them alive. I can't imagine they quit any of it just because they stopped breathing.Bob, the comment about your gulf stream inlaws made me snort so loud Laura thought I had fallen asleep and was snoring. When I read the whole thing to her she made a similar sound.
I always intended to leave NJ but never intended to move to Florida. Having lived here in north Florida for 3 years I couldn't be happier.
Mouse town is an hour and a half away and we can fly just about anywhere from there.
I know Florida isn't for everyone but it has enough going for it for me. Owning 10-, 17-, 34- and 49-year old cars without a spec of rust on any of them is almost enough by itself. The frame on the '72 Corvette has been exposed bare steel for more than a decade and it doesn't have surface rust. Of course, leaving bare steel outside with no A/C doesn't count. That's just negligence.
