Nice thread you got going. Only on page 7 but doing my best to catch up.
For parts and part numbers of parts for your Acty (or any Japanese vehicle) have a look at the following website. I used them for my Nissan Patrol and now for my Mitsubishi Pajero/Shogun.
https://www.amayama.com/en...
After reading the forum for several years but nothing of substance to add, I have specifically registered today to wish 1/2 Cup well.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Andrew, you hang in there too! Quite often the impact on family members is easily forgotten.