I was very fortunate Scott, in that my first boss and mentor really went the extra mile to teach me to make proper diagnosis and NOT to be a parts changer. I took his teachings to heart to learn everything I can about a system as I'm diagnosing it to find out where in the process the sequence is breaking down and to fully understand what is supposed to be happening and when.
This fact alone is the one that drives me to want to help others. I was taught the proper way to diagnose and to not just throw parts (or money) at a problem. For that reason alone I want to give back to the industry that has blessed my life so much. But it is getting harder and harder to want to help.
I thought about turning off the comments Marc, but not all are bad or someone wanting something. Most are actually good comments and most of the questions are good and well thought out questions, which by answering those I also learn from. I learned a few years ago to not respond to the negative comments at all, which I don't.
I also don't necessarily want to come across as an *******. RV'ing is a big part of our life and we have met a lot of very nice people in campgrounds as we travel and I don't want to look like an ******* online even before meeting someone. I enjoy those campground conversations and meeting people, just don't want to solve all of their problems.
It's actually quite funny as my wife and I have completely swapped roles. In High School she was the popular one with the large group of friends and was so outgoing. I was the shy introvert who was mostly alone in the auto shop or working on the farm with not much time for playing and although I "wanted" to be with the "in crowd", I simply didn't fit in and didn't like the drama that went along with many of those groups.
Now the wife doesn't want to do anything with people when we meet them in campgrounds, and I can talk to someone for an hour easy. I don't get it.
I completely understand hiring some work out Thom. I "could" probably hire more out, but opt not to, maybe it's a control thing, I don't know.
I have had a lot of people over the years tell me to hire out my lawn mowing and snow removal and focus on making that hourly rate back in my shop. While that makes perfect sense on paper, I just cannot bring myself to do it. I actually enjoy mowing my lawn and seeing the end result as it is very satisfying and rewarding. Snow removal not so much....
The wife insisted I hired out the alterations to the backyard earlier this spring and although I conceded, I wasn't as pleased with the end result on a couple of things and wished I would have just done it myself, even though it would have taken me a week rather than someone else doing it in a day. I look at that each day when I get home and it is just barely filling in properly now, where I should have just gone ahead and did it myself.
I also think there comes a point in time when some of us reach a point where we are not necessarily trying to accumulate more "stuff" and just want to maintain and enjoy what we have, not acquire more. I think we reached that point a while ago and my mindset is now focusing more on just enjoying my time day to day rather than stacking the shop full of side work chasing that carrot.
I see people at work who are running full steam ahead on that treadmill and I'm about ready to step off altogether. I am so blessed that the wife and I have been able to help our son get his education so he was able to avoid any debt when starting his life. I know what it's like to have to work two jobs to get ahead in life and I really didn't want that for my son. I watch him being able to have a good paying job that he enjoys which also allows his wife to stay home with our grandchildren. That was something that wasn't an option for his mother and I. He is able to get off work, go home and be present with his family each evening. THAT is huge and I am so happy for him. I feel like I was a good father, and even though I was home each afternoon and evening when he came home from school, I had the shop stacked full of work earning money. I never missed a parent teacher conference or a baseball or soccer game, but there were times I maybe wasn't as present as I should have been because I was focused on the boatload of work in the shop when I returned home.
I am finally getting to that point where side work is becoming less important to me and I am being very picky and particular about what I am accepting to do as I am discovering my time is more valuable than the money.