Where could I find replacement bars... Suggestions people?
If you have any good flea markets in your area, that's the best source. Typically found loose in the top tray or bottom of old toolboxes, even when there are no drive tools/handles in the same box. I pick orphans up automatically whenever I see one, whether or not I have a particular need for it at the moment, stockpiling them for when I do - and note that some extensions were also cross-drilled for a cross-bar. (See thumbnail 1 below for my current supply.) Precisely because the cross bar (or "tommy bar", as our British mates call it) is, as you have come to understand, almost always missing when you find a vintage flex/hinge handle (colloquially, "breaker bar") or a vintage extension that has a cross-bar provision, or an old socket set or partial socket set with cross-drilled flex handles and extensions.
A few of us here on GJ (d42jeep, User name already in use, gpw_42, and Tin Medic) are part of a small WWII collecting group and the cross bar is actually specified as a separate item for several kits we collect. As Provincial astutely alluded to, there was no industry standard in terms of diameter, even for tools of the same drive size. Consequently, they are interchangeable across brands only to a certain extent. The diameter diversity actually bit the Ordnance Dept in the **** during the war, because they specified 1/2" diameter, which only fits a few hinge handles. As a source of some wonder and consternation for us at one time, we did a deep dive on it. I did some catalog research (book approach) and Tin Medic made a chart (see thumbnail 2) from collected examples (empirical approach). Not sure the chart was ever updated, but between that and my summary below, sampling a smattering of major mfgrs, it's fairly representative of the specs to be aware of, at least in the 1940's.
SUMMARY:
In the 1930 OTC catalog, the cross bar doesn't even have its own part number. It's shown with the hinged handle and comes with the hinged handle. And by 1947, that hadn't changed one bit. It's evident that OTC was not a believer in turning extensions with anything but a ratchet. Williams was the same - with the bar advertised and sold to do exclusive service with the hinged handle (S-42) - but at least it had its own part number (S-42B). Others had the same scheme, including SK, New Britain, Cornwell, and Truth.
The Mfgrs I could identify that also cross-drilled their extensions were Duro, Bonney, Blackhawk, Herbrand, and Plomb.
Here's what I noted for cross-bars in 1/2-inch drive sets in the catalogs:
SK:
41650 (used with 17" 41653 hinged handle only) - 10" x 9/16" diam.
40250 (used with 10-/12" 40253 hinged handle only) - 10-1/2 x 3/8" diam.
Williams:
S-42B (used with S-40, -41, and -42 hinged handles only) - 9" x 7/16" diam.
Plomb:
5466PH (used with hinged handle and extensions) - 11-1/2" x 1/2" diam.
Duro-Chrome:
668D (used with hinged handle and extensions) - 9" x 3/8" diam.
Bonney:
4092 (used with hinged handle and extensions) - 8" long. Diameter not provided in catalog, but it's 3/8" and that's backed up by period documentation and Tin's chart.
Herbrand:
S-33 (used with hinged handle and extensions) - 11" long. Diameter not provided in catalog.
New Britain:
NS-31 (used with NS-56, -57, and -58 hinged handles only) - 10" long. Diameter not provided in catalog, and I don't have one, but the holes in my NB pieces are 3/8".
Blackhawk:
49986 (used with hinged handle and extensions) - 11" x 7/16" diam.