Bob: thanks again for sharing your life stories cause they really paint a picture of who you are and also hopefully help others that are maybe in a similar situation as you are see life differently.
Drives, when you are young, birthdays are ages apart and you say things like: "I can't wait until I turn 16 and can drive." Next thing you know your grandchildren are having children. If you don't savor every sweet and sour day of your life, it will be: "I wish I had...."
I have never torn off the front end of any car or made that sort of bending metal repair even if you are going to replace it with a new piece so WELL DONE SIR!!
Most people have others work on their cars and enjoy spending their time doing something else, like playing golf. For me, working on my own cars is relaxing and rewarding at the same time. I spent a little more time on the crossmember today and it looks like I won't be replacing it. In the back of my mind I'm thinking I should buy one while they are available but I'm trying not to add to my collection. As I see you getting organized, I realize I could easily overwhelm my space with cool stuff.
Big Congrats on finding the original screw!!
I suppose you are still going to have the shipment of new screws maybe put in a drawer where you can find them if this happens again and you aren't quite as fortunate to find the screw next time?
There are still a few empty parts drawers in the workshop so the little bubble pack will have a home. As long as they are in those drawers, I'll be able to find them in the future (as long as I remember I have them.
if your bride only read your thread to know how well you use your tools, but I bet she see evidence of you using them all the time which is a tip to the young guys?
if you want your bride to accept your TOOL BUYING ADDICTION BETTER show her what you can do, make and use them for and I bet that will help.
Liane knows about the tools and rarely complains. She brags to everyone she meets that her husband can fix just about anything (except a decent meal). A lathe, mill or other large machines would be a longer and more painful discussion. The drawer with the dovetail joints caught her eye and I expect I'll be making more but not for my use.
have a great day and I bet our days this week might rival yours if your temps are in the 60's, but I think we are having a last week of sun before rain and 40's and colder sets in for the winter. hope it warms up a bit for you so you can get your painting and keep your project moving forward.
cheers
Drives, we rarely have days in the 60s, even in the depth of winter. December, January and February may have overnight lows in the mid 60s but not for long stretches. Our outside orchids bloom in February, for example. Shorty and Jim had a morning low of 68*F but they are 450 miles north --we woke up to 76*F that morning.
Well said Andy, I completely agree.
Bob, thanks for sharing those stories, they touched a nerve with me. You may have mentioned it before, and I hope you don't mind me asking, but what happened to your brother? I lost my brother 10 years ago to a brain tumour, a month before his 30th birthday, and I still think about him every day.
Mat, thanks for that.
I don't think I mentioned my brother's death before. It's a simple thing but I think the back story is important.
Soon after his birth the joints in ****'s skull began to fuse. The pediatrician wrote a letter to my parents that he would probably never mature beyond a 6-year old. Both being teachers, they did everything in their power to help him. It's the reason I spent those summers in Vermont with my grandparents. He stuttered so they sent him for speech therapy but nothing helped -- until he turned 18 -- when two or three beers had him speaking perfectly. Mom and Dad's tutoring helped **** a lot and he graduated second in his high school with straight As. For fun he designed board games: one was a Civil War game where a roll of the dice and a card with the Generals' strengths and the size of the army determined the likelihood of victory. The South won the war one out of four times. His other game also involved dice and cards but was Baseball. He memorized every players' statistics and the dice determined strikeout, walk, single, double, etc. He could do square roots in his head and multiply or divide any two numbers. He was the lead trumpeter in the High School band and Mom and Dad set him up with a private teacher. The teacher made a comment about the shape of ****'s mouth and how difficult playing the trumpet would be. That was his last lesson and he never played the trumpet again.
**** was on Deans list at Middlebury College all through his Freshman, Sophomore and Junior years. Between his Sophomore and Junior years he traveled through Europe and my parent joined him in England for the last few weeks. Mom and Dad drove **** to Middlebury to start his Senior year and a week later he told them he couldn't go on -- he was losing his mind. They brought him home, took him to a psychiatrist and the doctor said he needed electroshock therapy. After the last treatment the doctor warned that he would regain his memory slowly and therefore had to be watched 24/7 -- in the event a traumatic childhood memory would return. **** spent his days with Liane (we were married and had our own place) and each day she would teach him to play Hearts (again). By Thanksgiving 1963 he was doing better and could stay at my parents' home by himself. He had a standing appointment with the psychiatrist every Friday and I would stop to see him daily at lunch between Post Office deliveries. He told me he wished he could give me his college credits because he couldn't use them. Turns out he found that letter from his pediatrician in my father's office when he was looking for his Passport. To say my brother was sensitive would be an understatement.
The week after Christmas 1963, my father told my brother it was time to go back to school. If he doubled up his course load he's be able to graduate on time. They argued and **** thought he won, expecting to stay home longer. On January 2, 1964 Dad said "I'm your father and you'll do as I say." The next morning my mother left her Triumph Herald at home so **** could drive himself to the doctor. Instead of going to the doctor, my brother went in the garage with the vacuum cleaner hose and hooked it up to the exhaust and into the car. Mom found him that evening after she came home from work. **** was 21 when he died and at 19, I was the only one capable of arranging his funeral. It was my first funeral and I learned some hard lessons, paying too much and making it last way too long. At the end of 3 days looking at him lying in the casket, I didn't want to let him go. Since then our funerals are short, closed casket or no funeral, cremation and a memorial service a month or two later.
Dad never told Mom about the last fight (he told me that night). She believed **** was inconsolable over John Kennedy's assassination. Dad passed away Thanksgiving Day 1968 at age 55 in his first month of retirement. Mom died Mother's Day 2008 at 95.
No! Bob NO!!! Don't listen to this craziness!!
I'm sure you learned the rule of unintended consequences during your career. The less information shared with your wife the fewer unintended consequences you'll have to forever live with.
By the way, I got worried when you said you had a screw loose, then was thinking of an inspection camera when you lost your screw. When you can remember you've got it, it can be really handy. Mine has a magnet attachment which goes on the camera. Seems like that would be handy. Getting ready to install my distributor I used the camera to see the oil pump slot location. That was nice.
Carry on.
Andy, we have a deal. If she complains about a tool, she has to listen to my extremely long-winded justification. Even she doesn't have that much time to waste.
Andy: OK I admit i've given my bride my password to GJ and she never has logged on. i've read her a few posts mainly cause I probably almost raised the dead with my laughter, but for the most part she understands it's like i'm writing a novel and i have daily readers on the pre manuscript.
Drives, Liane wants nothing to do with technology. She wants her rotary dial phone back. I have shown her where every password is stored so she can give it to one of our children to get to important records. I have shown her my posts and it's about as interesting to her as one of my poops in the toilet bowl. The only time she shows any interest is when I show her the online price for something she plans to buy at a store. She gives me the tag from her bra and tells me to order two more every once in a while. She doesn't have a cell phone and when the car won't start she goes in a store and asks if anyone has a phone. She then gives them our number because she has no clue how to use it. The TV and Cable box are in her wheelhouse but I don't actually understand how she uses it.
Bob: ok so i should have said DON'T HAVE YOUR BRIDE READ YOUR THREAD cause there are consequences, but showing her you are using the tools you buy to fix or make stuff better is what a lot of members could learn from us with more than a few tools that seem to keep buying more. you seem to have found the happy spot in your tool buying, but for a lot of guys especially the younger guys they need to know now or they may never get to buy those tools.
carry on and I bet you'd still give Andy a run for his money even with one arm tied behind your back like he suggested over on his thread cause I just know you'd GET R DONE SOMEHOW.
I bought a new 4-inch wide trenching shovel last year and when Liane found it, she was really happy that I had bought it for her. It is just right for digging a small hole for a plant. As long as my tools are not using her precious clothing and linen closet space, there is no problem.
I think
Andy was suggesting tying my one arm behind my back. He will do anything to win.
A good job on the screw retrieval. I always get a sinking pit of the stomach as the errant part pinballs its way into some nether region. The frustrating part is of course the failure to locate and to retrieve it.
Have you ever attempted to locate the first by dropping another to see where it lands? That's my last-ditch method.
Philip, before I bought the camera that's exactly what I did. It actually worked when I needed it most. I dropped a bolt for the A/C compressor on the Corvette. I thought I'd just buy another but when the lowest price I found was $14, I went back and dropped another similar size bolt -- it landed in the radiator fan shroud, right next to the real one.
I've also vacuumed around and then opened the shop vac to see what was picked up. Sometimes it works. I find it interesting that dropped parts seem to defy the law of conservation of energy. On their way to freedom, they must absorb energy then released once it lands, rolling to a nether location impossible to imagine it making it to from where it was dropped. Small springs are my bane. I disassemble things like carbs in cake tins (please don't inform the missus), boxes, or some other impromptu containment vessel.
I use those free LED flashlights from Harbor Freight. Lay it down on the floor and sweep in a circle -- I often see a little gleam from the spring/screw/nut -- but as often find solder balls and slivers of plastic packaging.
I also have a HFT color LED inspection camera which has proven useful. I bought it because my in-laws, whom I loved, had a cat in their wall. I used the camera to locate which part of the stud wall held the kitten & used my reciprocating saw to open a retrieval point. Two days later, another kitten! I guess a cat had a litter under the house or used it as shelter. No re-occurrances. I sealed everywhere that was open.
My in-laws were wonderful hard-working people who fled Communism in Cuba after Castro came to power. My FIL was almost lost to a military squad that came looking for him but a neighbor who was a physician hid him in his home, at great risk. They were able to get their only child out but were prohibited from leaving with her. They immediately sent her on a plane to Miami (see Operation Peter Pan) but were kept in Cuba 2-1/2 more years before they were stripped of their home, their savings, and all possessions. They were taken to Havana Airport and arrived in Miami only with what they wore, in their mid-50's. They lived to ages 98 and 99. They started and ran their own business, bought a home, and helped raise two grandchildren. They were both cancer survivors. My wife was always the best-dressed child in school as her mom was a tailor and she made all their clothes.
My mother grew up in the Depression and had to make her own clothes. She also made some of mine but I can't say it always made me the best-dressed in my crowd.
I think of them every day. They sacrificed a great deal to have their child raised outside Communism, they would have been the first to inform you it was worth the sacrifice. Sometimes personal tragedies allow people to show what they're capable of doing in the face of adversity.
My wife will never return to Cuba while it is Communist. She supports what used to be two elderly aunts, but one died this year. They probably would have both died by now without her buying them food, and sending them supplies.
I keep getting tempted to buy one of those inspection camera's or possibly a borescope attachment for my iPhone but then not sure how often I would use it. But your experience with the bleeder screw reminded me of how often I have played engine compartment pinball with a dropped screw, nut or bolt so maybe that's a good enough reason to use that next 25% off coupon that comes out. Good work on all your recent projects Bob.
Bob, thank you for your kind comments. I think I bought it when it was on sale. I already had a camera on a cable but it was next to useless having to hook it up to a computer. This HF camera works just fine but I couldn't get it to fit in the spark plug holes on either of the Corvettes.
^^^ what he said....
Glad to see that the Florida crew survived the storm. We have some friends who were in the path of the storm but very fortunate in that three trees dropped all around the house but none hit the house itself. They sent us some pictures of their neighborhood and it looks pretty bad so happy to read you guys faired ok.
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Duker, thank you! We have been close to quite a few storms but even the ones where the eye passed over us have been mild. Wilma was the worst and it lifted concrete roof tiles from our roof. Still nothing compared to the recent storms. It's amazing how much difference 20 or 30 miles makes. Andrew passed 50 miles south of us and all we lost were a few leaves and palm fronds.
Hope the bumper cover paint job goes better this round.
Are you adding any additives since it will be on plastic?
I’ve thought about the camera myself. Definitely useful when you need it. As they say, the job is always easier if you use the right tool.
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Stewart, I worked on the crossmember again today. It looks like we may have some relatively dry days this week (30% chance is dry I guess). The urethane I'm using for both base and clear is very flexible and I'm told flex additives won't make it better. We'll see.
I don't usually splurge on high priced tools or gadgets. I buy used/refurbished computers, phones and other stuff with my comfort zone fading when the price exceeds $100. I think I paid about $50 for the camera.