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RunninOnEmpty

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So there's a recent thread How do you do it? where jbailly asks how some of you afford your awesome garages. In the thread several people have gotten off-track and have been discussing various reasons WHY they do what they do rather than how they afford it. In that thread there are some touching stories regarding families. I thought we could discuss that in a separate thread. Maybe if the people who posted in the other thread about this topic would be willing to re-post or directly link their other posts in that thread here.

Here's my story.

I've always loved cars. My dad was into cars his whole life. He was a mechanic for much of his life and as a child, I watched from a distance as he did a lot of work to his own cars, aside from his job as a mechanic. He often drove pieces of ****, like many mechanics, because they were cheap and he could fix them himself. He owned a few Ford and Chevy trucks. He had owned lots of cool cars when he was younger including an AMC Javelin and others but the only cool car he owned when I was alive was a Fox-body Mustang.

Despite not watching him do much car work, I myself still got into cars. Like many of you I grew up with posters of the Lamborghini Countach and Ferraris and other car posters on my wall. My dad always told me we were going to build a hot rod together. We never really decided what sort of hot rod it would be, but personally I always imagined it to be something from the 1920s or 1930s, maybe based on a Ford Model A. Yes, the car is from long before my time.

Unfortunately he ended up getting injured at work. My dad was not in a position to turn down work. Eventually it got so bad that he was forced to retire and he had back surgery which didn't go well. He was unable to work on cars after that. I was still pretty young at the time. I think this was a couple years before I was old enough to drive.

I got my first car, an 89 Camaro and I did some work to that car. He would sometimes come out to the garage and give me a few tips, though more often he would just tease me about my lack of skill, which honestly frustrated me at the time. I remember one time I replaced a wheel hub on my second car not long after and I looked for the longest "ratchet" to remove the axle nut. Well, that turned out to be his Snap On torque wrench which he'd never taught me proper care on. Yeah, he got just as pissed as you did reading that sentence.

A few years later, I started asking him when we were going to build that hotrod. He always gave me the runaround. I think back then I really underestimated the amount of trouble his back gave him. I feel really bad about it.

A few months before I turned 21, my father passed away unexpectedly.

I'm hoping to have my own house in a couple years. One thing I can say for sure: That hotrod WILL get built and even though my dad can't help, I know he'll be there in spirit... teasing me for every mistake I make and for everything that takes me five times as long to do as it would for him. And I know he'll be with me in spirit when I take it out to have some fun.

Do any of you have family-related stories relating to what you do? Or stories that have motivated you to do as an adult what you couldn't do with your family in your younger years?

Edit: If this should've been in Free Parking, feel free to move it, mods. I posted it in the same section as the thread I linked, and then thought to myself that maybe it should've been in there.
 
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Streetbu

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Learned a lot from my dad, including cuss words and the appropriate time to use them LOL Mostly I was a lead light holder for him. His eye sight was poor when I was a kid and has continued to get worse. To the point he is now legally blind. I made lots of mistakes along the way, rebuilt my first V8 when I was 16, didn't even own a car to put it in yet. My first memories of helping him were changing out the engine on my moms car, a '76 Chevette. When we were done there was a cool whip tub of bolts left over and we both kinda laughed. The engine was out of a newer car so it had many more emission related items on it we didn't need to use. I have far outgrown his mechanical knowledge and aptitude in cars, although he always beats me on identifying the older cars, especially the 50's stuff.
 

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So there's a recent thread How do you do it? where jbailly asks how some of you afford your awesome garages. In the thread several people have gotten off-track and have been discussing various reasons WHY they do what they do rather than how they afford it. In that thread there are some touching stories regarding families. I thought we could discuss that in a separate thread. Maybe if the people who posted in the other thread about this topic would be willing to re-post or directly link their other posts in that thread here.

Here's my story.

I'm just about to hit 30 myself but I've always loved cars. My dad was into cars his whole life and I've got pictures of him rebuilding engines from before he was even in his 20s. He was a mechanic for much of his life and as a child, I watched from a distance as he did a lot of work to his own cars, aside from his job as a mechanic. He never really let me get close enough to watch closely as I was pretty young and he didn't want me to get injured and also I was probably too annoying/distracting for him as young children often are. He often drove pieces of ****, like many mechanics, because they were cheap and he could fix them himself. He owned a few Ford and Chevy trucks. He had owned lots of cool cars when he was younger including an AMC Javelin, a first-gen Camaro and more, but the only cool car he owned when I was alive was a Fox-body Mustang.

Despite not watching him do much car work, I myself still got into cars. Like many of you I grew up with posters of the Lamborghini Countach and Ferraris and other cars on my wall. My dad always told me we were going to build a hot rod together. We never really decided what sort of hot rod it would be, but personally I always imagined it to be something from the 1920s or 1930s, maybe based on a Ford Model A. Yes, the car is from long before my time and I've never so much as ridden in one, but I've always loved that styling.

Unfortunately he ended up getting a severe injury to his back while at work. Actually, I believe he repeatedly injured his back. Our family didn't have a whole lot of money and my mom was working several jobs and my dad was not in a position to turn down work. Eventually it got so bad that he was forced to retire and he had back surgery which failed. He was unable to work on cars after that. I was still pretty young at the time. I think this was a couple years before I was old enough to drive.

When I got my first car, an 89 Camaro 305 TBI which I bought from a friend of mine, he was vehemently against it. He was concerned for my safety and didn't feel that was a suitable first car. Even though he himself had all sorts of fast, unsafe cars when he was a child. Parenthood changes a person, huh? He did end up allowing it and I did some work to that car. He would sometimes come out to the garage and give me a few tips, though more often he would just tease me about my lack of skill, which honestly frustrated me at the time. I remember one time I replaced a wheel hub on my second car (I was probably 17, and I will note that I still had the first car at this time - I did not crash it) and I looked for the longest "ratchet" to remove the axle nut. Well, that turned out to be his Snap On torque wrench which he'd never taught me proper care on. Yeah, he got just as pissed as you did reading that sentence. It was my fault, though I wish he'd taught me to use the tool. It didn't break but I'm sure it threw the calibration off.

A few years later, I started asking him when we were going to build that hotrod. He always gave me the runaround. I think back then I really underestimated the amount of trouble his back gave him. Looking back at it now, I can see how there was no possible way he'd be able to do that with his back problems. I feel really, really bad about it.

A few months before I turned 21, my father passed away unexpectedly. 8 years later, I'm still highly affected by this, as will I be for the rest of my life.

In the past 11-12 years, I've gotten pretty good at fixing many problems in engines, transmissions, and even electrical problems (actually I went to a vocational school for electronics). I'm very inexperienced and terrible with body work and have never fully rebuilt an engine, but I have accomplished every job I set out to do so far.

I'm not in a very good spot in my life right now, but I'm hoping to have my own house in a couple years. One thing I can say for sure: That hotrod WILL get built and even though my dad can't help, I know he'll be there in spirit... teasing me for every mistake I make and for everything that takes me five times as long to do as it would for him. And I know he'll be with me in spirit when I take it out to have some fun. And he'll DEFINITELY be with me in spirit when I get my first speeding ticket, though I hope the cops in my area don't come to know me as well as the cops in my dad's hometown knew him. :D

Do any of you have family-related stories relating to what you do? Or stories that have motivated you to do as an adult what you couldn't do with your family in your younger years?

Edit: If this should've been in Free Parking, feel free to move it, mods. I posted it in the same section as the thread I linked, and then thought to myself that maybe it should've been in there.
Thanks for sharing this! Very similar to my story. I will post up shortly when I can get to a computer.
 

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My Dad taught me how to work with my hands, how to be proud that I could, how to act like a man, how to take care of my family, how to love God and my country, and part or most of just about everything I know. The rest I muddled through on my own. What else is there to say?
 
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I come from a family that if you don't know how to fix it, figure it until you do, and if you can't buy or don't have a special tool, make it.
 

gtae07

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My dad's father grew up on a farm, and became a machinist at Ford after he retired from the Army. He was also a decent carpenter, as evidenced by some of the furniture he built in their old house. He retired from Ford about the time I was born, and though his health issues prevented us from doing much in the way of physically active things together, I did get to talk to him a lot about his experiences before he passed away last year.

Though my dad never mentioned it explicitly, he must have picked up a lot of that aptitude from his father. His interest was airplanes, however, and he built and flew models throughout his early years before flying in the Navy and then the airlines. From a very young age, I remember helping him work on the car, building furniture, building and flying R/C airplanes, and so on. Eventually, he started building an RV-6, and though everyone in the family helped to some degree, I was usually the one out there with him drilling holes and bucking rivets.

That aptitude has stuck with all three of us (me, and my brother and sister). I share the airplane fascination with my dad, and though I got my license in high school I pursued a career in engineering rather than flying. I still fly Dad's airplane and help him maintain it when I'm home to visit, and I'm building one myself. I also found a position at work that let me get my hands dirty on occasion, even to the point of working Fridays in the machine shop for a while (and that made Grandpa's day when I told him about it :) ). I've built a bit of furniture for my wife, too, and am slowly getting my shop built in the back yard.

My brother also went into engineering, and after a short stint designing artificial shoulders has found a job designing and testing off-road vehicles. He and his wife have fixed up a camper van and a couple motorcycles so far, and they're now building all of the furniture for their new house.

My sister has more of an artistic bent; she's currently restoring an old electric guitar, and has built very nice-looking jewelry chests, boxes, and the like with limited tooling in her college apartment. She also makes chain mail to order, and being interested in archery and horseback riding has made her own longbow, quiver, wrist guard, and horse tack. Of course, she does basic maintenance as well, and it's shocking to her that hardly any of her friends (male or female) have any tools or know how to do any of that.
 
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