A lot of the cleaners really tear my hands up to the point they start splitting around my fingernails, or worse yet, the thumb has slices in it. I found a product I absolutely love and it is called Bear Paw. It seems like it may have Borax in it, but with some other stuff that makes it smell good, and possibly has some lanolin in it also. Other than that, I like Borax. It's gritty, but it doesn't tear my hands up like GoJo or Fast Orange. The downside of it is that it can plug up a sink if you use too much. When I was working I used to repair heavy, greasy dies. I was constantly washing my hands up to 15-20 times a day. Both Bear Paw and Borax neither one tore my hands up but would get them super clean.