I am going to hook up 220 in my garage. I have a 100amp service to the garage from the 200amp service at the house. I am finishing up the interior walls of the garage this week. I would like to be able to back feed the house from the garage (not connected) with a generator but I'm not sure the size of breaker or wiring I should use. The generator is rated for 5000 watts. My entire house is electric so I would like to be able to have hot water and keep the fridge running if the power goes out at a minimum. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
This has been beaten to death... DO NOT attempt to do this. It is illegal and dangerous. Wire a proper inlet (not that much money) or at least run the conduit now until you can afford to.
This requires a manual interlock to prevent the inlet from being connected to the power supply at the same time as mains. Without it you can
kill a lineman.
Hot water heater is usually at least 4KW, a 5k max generator could MAYBE run it, but very little else. The moment the fridge kicked in it would trip the breaker due to the start-up surge.
I think you need to consider your budget and what you all want to run, and the convenience factor, before you can get much more advice. You can save a ton of money by switching the fridge/etc over to a different outlet and not having the manual interlock switch/etc.