i am replacing the hacked together wiring in my detached garage. i bought a 20 circuit 100 amp box from lowes and had a friend stop by today while i was at work and he moved the power from the old circuit box to the new box and i am going to wire in all the new outlets and lights. i thought this was going to be straight foward but turns out not. the supply to the garage is 220going into the new box. there are 6 wires in the cable going into the box from the main feed from the house. he wired the new box in a way i wasnt expecting. 4 wires go into the 100 amp double breaker (brown and red and brown and red) they are 2 and 2 into the breaker. the other 2 (blue and black) go the left side of the box and are fed into the nuetral side, like i expected. what i didnt expect and dont know if this is correct is the ground wire from the 8ft gound rod is also connected to the nuetral side. so how do i connect the 3 wire romex into the box. the black will go to a circuit breaker but what do i do with the nuetral and ground. do they both go to the nuetral bar. that doesnt seem correct but maybe it is?

Yeah I'm also surprised they're not running those on medium voltage like 4KV!