Sorry to hear of your mother in law passing Nick. It sounds like she was very involved with your family, which was a great gift. My in-laws are very special to us as well and have been an important part of our kids lives as well. It sounds like you are 100% on the right track supporting your wife as you are.
Funny how we experience life vicariously again as our kids grow up. Your daughter looks to be pretty happy with her birthday spoils
Brilliant job on the GTI so far. I've learned to step back a bit and take my time, particularly when life "intrudes" on one's work time.
Thank you,
Dennis. You are 100% right, it was a great gift and we are very fortunate that both sets of parents are a 10min drive from us. They both did daycare for us when the kids were babies, and would often have them over to play or babysit on weekends. A huge amount of help we are very grateful for.
Kids are the best. It feels like a rat race some days, but it's so much fun and has definitely helped reorder my priorities in life.
In terms of projects and work time, I'm glad I was able to knock out a few things this summer including some work on the GTI. But again, you are exactly correct, we were consciously spending extra time with the in-laws and my wife's mom while we could. Obviously no regrets there. Sorry if this is an overshare for GJ, but she died of pancreatic cancer caused by a genetic mutation, which is passed on generationally 50/50. It's called BRCA, which is mostly known for breast and ovarian cancers, but comes with some other elevated risks as well. And my wife has it, too... so I've also been watching her parents go through this with the lens of 'that could be us someday'. As such, I've been contemplating my own longevity and what's important to me and making some changes. I'm not in bad shape or anything, but as I'm sure a lot of us did I picked up or amplified some bad habits during the Covid / Work-From-Home-Revolution

. Similar to how you've had success with picking up biking again, I've been eating better, drinking less, and exercising more. And trying to maximize time outside and in nature. Carving out that extra time to make food and exercise and be consistent definitely means less time for other stuff.
I'm getting on a tangent here, but one of the most transformative things I started is walking around one of our city lakes (about 3 miles) every morning after dropping the kids at daycare and before work, no matter the weather.
I liked it so much I've rarely missed a beat.
So yeah, not my usual GJ type of post, but it's definitely played into my sense of urgency to do things like 'clean the gutters', especially over the past year. Suddenly other things seemed much more important.
TL;DR, I got way less done this summer than I set out to do. And I'm completely ok with that.
Nick, my condolences to you and your family. You are doing everything right.
Thank you,
Dan, I appreciate it. I am trying my best!
Nick, so sorry to hear of your mother in law's passing. It hits me especially hard that she passed so young. Our son turns 60 in two weeks.
Thank you,
Bob. It was surprising for sure, and seemed to both happen slowly and way too fast. Definitely young, and she is survived by her mother who is in her early 90's.
On another positive note, I planted a tree. Our city has a program where you can get cheap, native trees ($20-30 a piece) in the spring and fall. Once the Silver Maple Big Boy is gone, I plan to take advantage of it and get more stuff, but for now we got a 'Service Berry' to help enclose the patio area:
I don't know much about it except I think it doesn't get too big, has little red berries, and changes color and flowers in the spring/fall kind of like a crab apple.
It's been getting chilly here so I hope I got it in the ground early enough that the roots take hold before winter hits.
