Standard quick coupling are brass sockets and steel plugs.
If left together and not exercised regularly they become slow couplers quickly due to the steel plugs rusting as well as the balls in the socket.
Also over time, the steel plug will deform where the balls rest.
Lubing the couplers will help but needs to be done periodically and few do that, including me

white grease is fine or any other grease will work. Smear it on the plug, insert in coupler and twist around
If you have a coupler that won't get used much. Coating the plugs with antisieze helps a bunch.
To free up a stuck coupler, spray with penetrating oil and grab the collar on the socket with pliers and try to rotate it. Then put a wrench on the plug and try to rotate it in the plug. Then drive the collar back with screwdriver and hammer. Then try to pull the plug out while twisting. It may come apart but not all do. Either way you will likely replace them
OP was right. USA stainless quicks are pricely but do last.
Chinese stainless quicks are just a bit more then USA brass and steel and are fair. I sell those to the bleach boys.
Brass plugs (the male end) sound great but deform quickly and won't come apart so avoid them.
We sell more standard brass and steel then the others. USA made
Can't remember the brand but all the USA made ones are fine.
Chinese couplers are cheesy but cheap. General pump brand is ok.
To the OP'S ? All stainless is best, brass and steel next, all brass is worst just because of plug deformation
Someone mentioned metric twist couplers as seen on most European units and lots of homeowner style. I don't mind them but never used them personally long term. They need to be exercised often too or will get difficult.
Note, on homeowner units with twist couplers and an aluminum outlet at pump, disconnect when not in use or you won't get them apart.