Love the look of your house. That will be fun to own and work on.
My house is 1840s ish in Maine. Which is to say, I have no regional experience that will help, but 40 years of old house living experience. I have seen some odd things as we have worked on our house that needed fixing, too. Sometimes we can make it "new," and sometimes we just stabilize what's there.
If you are concerned about rafters spreading, you could add rafter ties a third of the height down from the peak. I am curious about why the rafters did not continue to sink and break through the plaster ceiling? Did the end of the rafters catch the edge of the plates? I think I would be looking for a way to sister new rafters to the old, to extend onto the top plates. You might also look for a way to sister to the side of the top plate to make it wider and support the rafters. The advantage of "Adding to" is that you are making it stronger, and can do it one piece at a time. How you get access to do that depends on some other factors.
From the pictures, it looks like the plaster keys between the laths are broken. If the plaster if falling and you are going to be replacing ceilings anyway, access from below would be super easy. Or you can access through the fascia, and then replace the fascia. Or you can access through the roof and repair the roof.
I would not necessarily involve an architect or engineer. You might talk with neighbors who have encountered similar issues. There is a good chance that there are houses close to you built by the same carpenter, or with similar techniques. Look for houses that look like yours, or at least the same vintage.