Mike, I get the conundrum of driving our cars for enjoyment, offset by the effort to keep them “pristine”. I opt for the driving enjoyment and am OK with the trade offs. I bought our ‘19 ZR1 Corvette off a lot in Houston at sticker less my owner loyalty discount. I didn’t know until later that it was the only one of the 2,879 run configured as it is - yes, a true unicorn. Based on auction results, it’s probably a $300k plus car now. Notwithstanding that, it has been on 2 Museum in Motion tours and will likely be taken on more having racked up 13,000+ miles in the process. Does it have a couple of blemishes - YES! But, I bought it to enjoy driving it and it gets out regularly regardless of its elevated value.
I don’t buy my cars as investments - if they go up in value, that’s fine - I get them to drive them regularly and let others enjoy them if so inclined. While I have a car hauler, it’s only been used to bring my finds home - no trailer queens in my garage!!
Ramble over, but as Gary Meadors said “You gotta drive ‘em!!”
Gary, I have actually had a bit of change of heart (or mind) over the years. When I first started building street rods/race cars in the late 80's and well into the late 90's, my goal was to build showstoppers. I was fortunate that I was able to build not only my 1940 Chev Coupe, but also a 1936/37 Ford Coupe for a client and was blessed to have them in magazines and won many car shows. At the time I was so **** about the paint and undercarriage that these cars were detailed to the max, then tires diapered and loaded into the trailer before heading to the show(s). It wasn't until after showing mine for several years that I got the bug to put it on the strip and drag race it. The first chip was the hardest.

However, I really developed a love for racing and craved it after that.
Unfortunately, my wallet wasn't happy with the racing so I was only able to do that for about 8 years before I took a break. I put the car away when my dad dies in 2002 and it never saw the light of day until 2006 when I drug it back out and wanting to get it on the track again. Shows were less appealing at that time, but the strip was calling my name. Racing these cars will definitely be a test of one's mental awareness when it comes to stressing things like the chassis and getting a few chips and scratches. It was difficult on my mentally, but I enjoyed racing so much I came to the conclusion it was the nature of the beast.
When I finally realized I didn't have the funds to make it racing, I sold the street rod in 2006. I worked on a few for clients which filled that void, but it wasn't the same. I stepped away from drag racing in the late 90's when we built my son a couple of sand drag quads and that replaced the asphalt drag racing for a bit, plus it gave him some exposure and experience. Unfortunately, or fortunately depending on how I choose to look at it, he lost interest around 2010 and by 2012 he was completely done with it, so we sold all our sand drag toys in 2012. I'm not going to lie though, I was pretty much done with the powersports crowd by then anyways, so I completely got out of all powersports and quit working on them altogether.
I focused on daily drivers and some performance work for a while which is when my mindset really began to change. I began to realize that I wanted to actually drive the cars and vehicles that I was building rather than having them become trailer queens and just go from show to show. In 2010 when my son started showing more interest in bikes, we went down the same road with those. Building them so nice that we didn't enjoy riding them as much as building them. When he bought his Street Glide, we had this whole build planned out but before we really commenced the project, we had a mental shift to build it more suitable to ride, which also triggered my next bike, a 2010 Ultra CVO which I also focused more on keeping it a nice cruiser vs. building it up to show.
When we sold it and the wife wanted to replace it with another toy, my first instinct was to build a first gen Camaro but I know how that would have gone and it would be a long drawn out build and not really driven. When we had discussions about a later model and I told her my thinking and we began our search for our Fifth Gen Camaro, it was going to be a driver. When we found it, the car although virgin, did already have a few rock chips and scratches, but otherwise 100% OEM and unmolested. Just what I was looking for.
I did zero it out and do a full paint correction along with some wheel refinishing, but for the most part kept it a driver and we've enjoyed using it as such. When I was doing the paint correction, the wife did comment that she was afraid I was making it too nice for me to mentally enjoy it, so I had to scale back a bit on my end goal.
I'm trying to keep it pristine, but I'm also trying to be realistic in why we bought the car and that was to drive and enjoy.
Mike, Gary, et al just a bit of a followup. My dad was a car fanatic-no eating, drinking or such in his vehicles, pristine and perfect as he could.
Our cars/toys, etc need to be exercised. I am a believer of drive them. Many of the cars/trucks I enjoy, my kids won't keep or enjoy. I'm fine with that, so the idea of preserving the paint so it's perfect, fixing the slightest of flaws not my cup of tea. At car shows I let folks sit in my car and especially youngsters. I want the next generation to enjoy them like I have. Recently discussed this with cronies, and told them my instructions for the cars is they go to auction when I pass. Enjoy the checks kids!
Lastly I'll add do it now while you can, no one knows what tomorrow holds.
Joel, I couldn't agree more about cars needing to be exercised. Hell, anything mechanical needs to be exercised for that matter to keep the functioning properly. I am very vocal about this in the RV realm. I tell people who are thinking about buying an RV that if they can't afford to use it (time or money), then don't buy it because they need to be exercised on a regular basis. The worst thing to do to an RV is let them sit. I have said repeatedly that if I need to replace hoses, belts and fluids, I would rather replace them based on miles than age alone.
I just need to fully adopt that mindset when it comes to our car. The Jeep and truck I already have that mindset and they get used heavily and consistently. As for building the next car(s), I am in a hold pattern until retirement. I know this is not ideal, but I am so focused right now on getting the mortgage paid off and building up our nest egg, that nothing else is really a priority right now. I'm sure that people may disagree with me on that, but I actually think I enjoy building cars more so than owning them. For that I need time. I only have a few hours a night to work in the shop so right now it is focused on making money and keeping our assets maintained. Once I have 10+ hours a day to work, I will shift my attention to another build, and so on.
Honestly other than driving it, the best part of owning a nice/fun car is letting kids that are excited sit in it for a few min and get their pictures taken. The joy it brings them is infectious and I look at it as fueling the next generation of car lovers.
I am not there. I don't like others in or on my vehicles, but my grandson is a different situation. To see the joy it brings him to sit in Papa's car or Jeep and enjoy them is something I am looking forward to more and more.
Don’t get me wrong, I like “pristine” and try to maintain them to this standard. I’m just not willing to give up driving them to attain that standard.
Gary, again, I think my mindset has changed over the years. I think some of that was being able to be around some high caliber builders in the 80's and 90's. I was so focused on perfection, that I could not and would not accept anything less. Then as I began to interact with some of these high-end builders, I began to kind of hear a theme and realized there is no such thing as a perfect car. EVERY builder knows exactly where the flaws are at, they just don't advertise or go around pointing them out. However, ask any show car builder and they know an area or part or two that they may be less than thrilled with the way it turned out. A gap here or a fitment there, something that just doesn't look or fit the way they want it to. The builder knows.
I try to keep that in mind and although I shoot for perfection in some things, I realize that it can be crippling to some degree. I have seen some cars never be completed because the builder keeps redoing some aspect of the car and simply cannot get past it to move on to the next. So it then becomes a question of does the build get killed because it isn't perfect, or does it move forward and the builder just accepts when something is "good enough"?

Only the builder can answer that question.
My Jeep is what I would call "nice", but far from perfect. Going off-road with a vehicle will certainly change one's mindset on scratches and dings.

I recently took it in for the annual emissions test and the person performing the test was shocked at the year and how many miles it has on it. Although I was flattered, I know it is not perfect as it has some scratches from our spring trip to Kanab that I need to polish out. But I also know that clear is finite and have to make that determination on how many times and how deep I go to polish out a few scratches before I will need to repaint or at least reclear it. It is all a balancing act, but I built the Jeep to enjoy and the wife and I definitely enjoy it. So for that, I can live with a few scratches as it brings joy to us to actually use it.
Same with our coach, as pristine and meticulous I try to keep it, it has a few rock chips on the front and I don't let it keep me from enjoying it. For almost a nine-year-old paint job I think it is pretty nice, but far from perfect. I am overall happy with it for 150k miles and 24 years old. I am sure it will end up with a few more rock chips each year, but I guess that's a sign we are using and enjoying it. I'm sure the coach will be the first thing sold when the wife and I are gone as my son has no interest in RV's. The daily drivers and Camaro I want to keep them nice for us as well as to pass down, but the coach is solely for mine and the wife's enjoyment.