My wife and I are building a home and are doing the same thing. We're going to heat with geothermal and will only need gas for a cooktop. (The ovens will be electric.)
The Mrs. and I do a lot of cooking and currently live in a condo with gas for the cooktop, oven, and heat.
During the non-heating months, we use around 1 Therm of gas per month for cooking. 12 Therms per year works out to be 1,200,000 Btu per year. Using a conservative fudge factor for oven vs. cooktop, lets say the cooktop is 1,000,000 Btu per year.
At 21,600 Btu per lb. of propane, that would put us at 46 lbs. per year.
My going-in plan has been to be to have two tanks hooked up to a "Y" coupling, drain one tank half way, and then open the second tank. If the tanks are identical, my understanding of physics (I may be off, its been a while since I hit the text books.) is that the tanks will drain at the same rate, allowing me to disconnect an empty bottle and refill it while the other is still hooked up.
Even though, it would be overkill - I'm thinking of doing dual 100 lb. tanks as I want to go with an ASME tank. (I can't find ASME tanks under 100 lb. - only DOT tanks.)