That is the culture that we live in. Returns are part of doing business. If I know that I can return an item, I am more inclined to open my wallet.
Perhaps if you had actually read my post you could grasp the idea that I was
referring to customers that were abusing a company return policy. I also stated that part running a business was dealing with returns.
Seriously, if that is your attitude, I wouldn't be buying from you...
Usually my attitude is very serious, especially when dealing with customers.
Additionally, as a buyer, I am not inclined to worry about what is convenient for a seller...
That's very evident by your post. Maybe you should consider that building relationships take an effort from both customer and business owner.
Believe you me, I have. I live in a VERY small town and have a positive relationship with almost every business here. The problem with you post is that you view your business as a unilateral one-way street. I won't work with folks like that. A business relationship is a two way street. I also expect a small business owner to take care of their business and not necessarily concern me with their convenience. That is not my primary goal. They have something that I need and I have money. If I don't like their attitude, I will go elsewhere and they can eat their inventory.
It's quite simple, really. But if a business owner is going to post a bunch of signs and warnings and makes me uncomfortable, I will go elsewhere. especially with online businesses, it is easier than ever to find someone who is cooperative with their customers.
The problem with posting a bunch of warnings and signs is that they set the stage for an adversarial relationship from the get go. There is a reason that the big businesses do not post those types of signs - or if they do, they word them very carefully.