Why not buy a Liftmaster Commercial jackshaft opener, then? They have a number of models, including the 3900, which appears to be the commercial version of the 3800.
http://www.liftmaster.com/lmcv2/pages/productfamily.aspx?famid=45
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Maybe these guys want to sell you a more expensive opener? lol (I am very wary of "expert" installers and generally discount any advice they give if I don't think they can read/understand the instructions.)
I'd say that the manufacturer knows best. Now... there is probably a good case to use a
commercial opener on a
commercial door. The amount of use commercial doors and residential doors get is typically very different, thus the durability for the openers should also be different.