Do you have any lathe experience? If not, you could find someone to make it, but if you do you can make it yourself. Use a push on / push off button type of switch. You can get "micro-switches. I'll snap a pic of one type in a second. You would need to take the packing out of the valve, and make a new piece that foes in that the handle would screw to, but underneath the packing nut, you'd have to have a small spring and a micro switch. Push down on the handle to turn it on and push down again to turn it off. If you can't find a switch small enough, you could make another housing that looks like the valve only a little larger. The bad part, you need to isolate the wires and connections from ever touching the copper and brass.
Another thing you could look at doing is go to Big Lots, Odd Lots or whatever it's called and pick up a cheap touch lamp, rip the guts out of it and use it in your setup. That way, all you would have to do is touch the lamp anywhere to turn it on or off.