Stomp and sputter all you like; but the fact remains that your "words of wisdom" did indeed lead the OP to (at least tentatively -- thank Ghod he asked for confirmation!) erroneously conclude he could just replace the breaker in the main panel to effect an "instant upgrade" of his sub-panel service, with no regard to the capacity of the feeder cable itself. If that is not the very definition of "dangerous advice", I don't know what is.
"I don't want to spend the money" is NEVER an acceptable excuse for taking ad hoc shortcuts, or ignoring basic safety principles.
To suggest (as you did, even if you also gave lip service to the contrary in a somewhat "backhanded" manner) that completely ignoring the fundamental safety principles upon which the NEC is based, and/or not bothering to ground the outbuilding, and/or using an inadequate feeder cable, can EVER be OK -- and especially that "I don't want to spend the money" could EVER make any of that even the slightest bit "more OK", is irresponsible in the extreme.
My post to the OP could not have been any more direct to the point when he was asking about the service feeder breaker size. Yet the OP replies to my post and asked....
" So you're trying to tell me that i'll be ok IF the circuit breakers in the house are changed to 100 amps then the service wire should be ok, right? thanks gregtwojeeps " HUH ? How did the OP derive this from my post above ??
I agree with you TMP on doing electrical projects to code, never was a doubt about that. But not all people have the money to bring their project "up to code" which is most likely the case in this thread, or the OP would not be asking on a internet forum about their project. ....
But I think this thread should be a lesson to all the readers here. If someone is asking about doing a electrical project on this forum, the person that is responding to their inquiry,
" Does not know the electrical skill level or in general, the mental aptitude of the OP' ...
So in knowing this, all the people giving out advice on a DIY electrical forum are subject to scrutiny. If I was not knowledgable of electrical work, how do I know if I am getting the correct advice from TMP ? Or anyone else on here for that matter ? Better yet, why do people give advice to someone doing electrical work, that has to ask questions about their project on a forum ? ...
Harsh statement ? I dont think so. Look at this thread. The person was told his plan of action was NOT the right way by more posters than just I. Yet his next question was after reading the replies was,
"Is it O.K. to increase the existing breaker protecting the existing 60 amp service to his daughter's garage to 100 amps ?? ! Do What !! ??!!
I have learned my lesson here about DIY electrical forums so, I will not be returning ( try to keep down the applause please) . ....
I think anyone replying on DIY electrical forums should make themselves aware of the fact, they may be giving info out to someone that is not capable of handling it. There always exists the "possibility " that the use of the info given out on a forum and used by the person asking for advice could get the the advice taker killed, injured or have property damage in trying to impelment the forum's advice. ....
And also, is their potential litigation risks for the advice givers on a electrical forum ? What if someone gets hurt while doing a project advised by the forum member, and they got hurt taking GOOD advice ? Yet, the user (person asking for help) was NOT qualified to be doing the work advised ? ...
There may be a, "freedom of liability clause" for all posters somewhere in the TOS for this site, I dont know. But I learned a long time ago, if enough money is spent on a powerful attorney, NO ONE can sign away their right to sue.
Bye ya'll

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