I have about 15 grinders, about 12 of them are 4 1/2. I think I have some of Harbour Freight, Dewault, Porter Cable, Milwaukee, Makita, Metabo, Hitachi and Bosch.
For occasional DIY use any of them, including Harbor Freight will do fine.
Harbor Freight or cheap chinese grinders are OK. They are a little down on power, they are noisy and vibrate and sooner or later the switch or wiring will fail, but they can be used for real work and they are dirt cheap.
The best cheap grinder I've found is the Porter Cable long tail grinder for $39.99. Those things will take a ton of abuse.
Dewault is the worst of the name brands - I have two of their professional ones, and although they are some of the most powerful motors, they get real hot when you work them hard, and blow the breakers every time. Bosch are noisy and vibrate badly and get hot also.
Milwaukee, Hitachi and Makita are all very good. Makita is the smoothest running of all, and they are very well built and tough. The only problem with them is they are shaped fairly crudely compared to some of the others.
The best grinder of all is Metabo - also the most expensive - they take a lot of abuse. They are nearly as smooth at Makita, and they have great features and switches.