I don't understand, please explain. How hard could it be to put down a vapor barrier before pouring the concrete?
It isn't terribly costly but if you didn't specify a vapor barrier before you obtained bids, you will likely have to pay a little more. Most contractors won't throw one in for free.
There are a few costs involved other than the material and labor to spread it out. Ideally vapor barrier should be turned up and secured at the edges and all seams and penetrations must be taped. The vapor barrier must also be protected from punctures, which involves some care and attention including to the base underneath.
Another consideration is the product used for the vapor barrier. You could use a 6 or 10 mil poly, which is inexpensive and reasonably effective but prone to damage. The other option is a 15 mil product such as Stegowrap, which is more effective at blocking water vapor and much more resistant to damage. It comes with a higher cost however.
Another reason for your contractors reluctance could be that finishers are not fond of them. As concrete sets, excess mix water works its way out of the concrete. Vapor barriers keep this water from going down into the soil resulting in slower set times and more bleed water at the surface. This can easily be mitigated by keeping slumps low or by using a mid range water reducer - both of which are highly desirable for unrelated reasons.
It might not be quite as simple as we made it sound but it is still worth doing and shouldn't break the bank. Sorry you asked? lol