No argument that fine threaded bolts are stronger than coarse. But that does not address the problem of shear in the parent material.
I already addressed shear strength in the parent material with math and science in my post. Not sure how you ignored that but you did. Threads shear ~ at the pitch diameter and the strength is determined by that area. Experiments and commercially available thread strength calculators confirm this- and they agree with the calculations I have shared. Been there and done that. But you are obviously smarter than all the Toyota, etc, engineers that specify fine threads when necessary. Where did you get your BSME?
Yes, per thread, as I showed, the fine thread has a smaller shear area. No smarts to notice that. But they also have more threads per inch. So it mostly equals out. And the fine thread bolt strength wins out. Which is why they are used in high torque and critical applications. Fine threads are generally not used in industrial applications because there is more design flexibility. I design custom machinery for a living also. But I'm also aware of math and science.
Obviously you will never be convinced, and that's ok.