That seemed to be the best of both worlds for a normal construction, but with the requirements from the steel structure manufacturer it really is a bear and I can't find a detail that seems to work.
Unfortunately, I dont see a way to... originally the footer was going to be 12" wide full depth until the concrete vendor realized that the fall over the footprint of the pad was too high and we had to swap to a CMU stemwall deal. The steel vendor requires the concrete pad to be at least 8" wider than the structure itself, 4" on each side, I am guessing so that there wont be a possibility with blowout of the concrete anchors?
And even more unfortunately, I have to have the entire slab poured and photos taken before the structure people will put me on their installation schedule.
I have even another little piece of constraints... I am planning to interleave the 2x6 structural wall inside the steel ladder structure so I dont lose even more footprint of my buidling (I am pretty miffed that they went to the ladder structure without telling me and losing 2' interior clearance, when I originally asked to do a 32' wide structure and they said it would be a large expense and I wouldn't even gain useable space since they would have to switch to a ladder structure, but that's another story).
Assuming I can put the 2x6 stud wall in there, I really only get about 3-1/4-3-1/2" of bearing right on the edge of the slab. I'd guess that's okay since there are details of exterior walls cantilevering on the edge of the structure, like the below image I found online. Granted, none of this has to meet energy codes, I am trying to add the insulation to save myself money in heating the space, and trying to do the perimeter insulation to mitigate any frost heave issues. Any input would be greatly appreciated.
Example of cantilevered structure
