I feel real stupid I should not have paid any attention to the markings on the wires. On the indoor unit I have
N1 , 2 , 3 and G
on the outdoor unit I have
N1 , 2, 3 L1 L2 and G
I hooked all the N's together 1,2,and 3. on the outdoor unit the L1 and L2 are for the 220 in from the breaker...