The standard speed for 4-1/2” or 115mm angle grinders is 10,000 rpm or 11,000 rpm on some models like Bosch.
Most manufacturers of angle grinders usually only recommend using smaller steel brushes than 4-1/2” on this size of angle grinder. I think 2-1/2” or 3” is usually the size typically recommended for a 4-1/2” angle grinder.
For safety reasons, and under OSHA safety specs, you’re not supposed to use an accessory on a power tool if the power tool has a maximum rpm above the maximum rpm listed for that accessory, even if the power tool is a variable speed version that can have the rpm reduced below the accessories maximum rpm.
The reason for this is that the variable speed modules most power tool motors use can fail, and if the speed control module fails, the motor might immediately speed up to maximum rpm, which can cause accessories with a lower rated rpm to fracture or shatter leading to serious injuries.
While 4-1/2” angle grinders may have a speed of 10,00 or 11,000 rpm, 5” and larger angle may have a lower rpm rating.
The typical speed for a 5” angle grinder is 10,000 rpm, whith some angle grinders essentially being the same as the 4-1/2” angle grinder from the same manufacturer, nust with the 4-1/2” and 5” angle grinders supplied with different sized guards.
5” angle grinders are also much more likely to be available with a variable speed dial installed.
Some 5” angle grinders are abailable in a slightly lower rpm version made for working with stainless steel. The rpm on these models varies, but 8,000-8,500 rpm is usually about average for a 5” angle grinder meant for use on stainless. Angle grinders for stainless also almost always have a variable speed module, so the speed can be lowered to 2,500-3,000 rpm give or take.
8000 rpm is typically the speed 6” angle grinders have
As far as manufacturers go, Fein, Flex, and Metabo have all manufactured grinders for stainless. Fein tends to put “Inox” in the model number. Metabo and Flex may do something similar.