I'm in Texas. 7/2018:
Costs are appearing to vary pretty wildly, I'm getting bids with swings of up to 50%.
What I've sorted out, in my area:
Closed cell foam, R-7 per in, is $1 per in sqft.
Open cell, R-3.7 per in, is $0.25 per in sqft.
Basically, for jobs my size - which is almost 5000 sqft (roof, walls), you cannot DIY (Tigerfoam, etc) for less than just getting it done.
This is for a steel building absolutely nothing in it, so it's dead easy, other than the 16' wall size (need to spray the roof).
So to get to an R-13 or R-14 envelope with open cell, which is below recommended minimums in my area, I'm looking at $5000 for a 40x60 building. I'm probably going to go with these R values as I do not air condition very often (a few days a month) and I have solar power, so my power costs are low.
There appears to be a cellulose product nationwide that is sprayed on "wet" with adhesive. I actually see it in the building that I work in. It's called K-13 and you can see who installs it in your area. I haven't been able to get a good bid on it yet, but it SHOULD be cheaper than open cell foam. It's advantages should be cost, much more flame resistant. Disadvantage will be that it's not going to handle water very well at all and won't handle hail damage either.
I'm planning on using 3 x 24k Pioneer Ductless split systems, about $3600. Moving to 2 x 36k units actually drives the cost up a bit. Mr. Cool costs more also, but has a better warranty. I have the vacuum equipment from working on car AC systems and it's really not that hard to evacuate lines.