Crappy tap wrenches seem to be a modern curse.
Trouble is, they are expensive to get right. An engineer will spend a comparable sum on his tap wrench to what a mechanic will spend on his ratchet.
There are very few good ones out there new. A few more are “acceptable”, but there is an awful lot of complete trash.
I’m totally in agreement with RoninB4 in that the tap wrenches from decades ago were considerably better (on average) than today. The problem I think is that many are now bought by purchasing dept’s of companies, rather than by the users, and they don’t really know what they are buying.
The good news is that really good tap wrenches don’t wear particularly, so buying used is the way to go. I’m in the U.K. so the manufacturers here are (to an extent) different, but the principle is not. Almost all mine were bought used. Just a sample below.
For automotive use, where the range of sizes is limited (typically 1/4, 5/16, 3/8 or equivalent) but access is sometimes more challenging, I do find that tap sockets work well. You can use them with whatever handles you like, and it’s easier to find a good tap socket than a good tap wrench.
These are by KoKen.

