If I were trying to bend something that I thought was hardened, I'd stick the jaws of the wrench in water and heat the area you want to bend with a torch. I'd try to keep it in a 'black' heat or just occasional slight bit of dull red.
Like others have said, much of it comes down to exactly what type of steel the tool is already made from. Most likely it will be a higher carbon steel that is able to be hardened, but there are still vast differences in the proper processes to harden different types of steel.
One thing to consider though, is that very minimal to no changes will occur in the steels structure until it is heated up quite a bit. In order for steel to undergo significant hardening, it has to be heated to the point where the actual lattice structure of the steel atoms change. In many alloys this temperature range can be from 900 deg F to 1600 deg F. So if the steel is not heated up to this temperature, for the most part it will retain its original mechanical properties. Heat treating processes involve exceeding this temperature and then controlling the rate of cooling in order to change structure of the steel. After hardening a piece of steel, in most cases it will need some sort of tempering process to make it tougher and less brittle. This process can occur at a lower temperature than you have to heat it when you are hardening the steel. Again though, the temperature used for tempering depends on what type of steel it is and how much tempering needs to be done.
Again though, heat treatment can be quite a finicky process and is hugely dependent on what the original material is. My advice would be to try to heat the part as little as you have to and to try to keep the part that does not need to be bent as cool as possible. Without knowing exactly the heat treating processes for the type of steel, you could end up damaging it just as easily as improving it.
A great source of information on just about any material and the appropriate heat treating processes are the ASM Handbooks. You should be able to find these at any college with an engineering program, or you can access them online, but I think you have to subscribe to gain access to it.
Good luck with your project.