I am new here, and was googling stuff and came upon this site.. figured i'de chime in since it happened to me.
When I was young I used to love to help my father work on stuff, He would always have me fetch tools for him and showed me how to fix stuff. Fast forward to when I got my first car, I started wrenching on it myself. I am not going to lie, I would loose a lot of tools. He would always get mad at me and say that I lost his tools. After a while, I went out and spent over $1000.00 and purchased my own tool box and filled it with tools. Granted it was just Craftsman stuff, but it still did the job and they were MY tools. Well my father thought it would be a great Idea to combine our tools, and I thought that would be a good idea, because I had tools that he didn't and he had tools that I didnt. Well when I went to move out to go to college, I obviously wanted to bring my tools with me. So I separated all of the tools, and he starts to complain about how I lost this tool and I lost that tool, which I actually didnt. Anyways, long story short I gave him all of my tools, and took an empty tool box to school. Got a job while I was at school and re-filled it. I don't share my tools, lone them out, etc.. I have my tools separated in order so everything is nice and neat. I keep my tools locked up. I bought my kid his own tool box and told him if he loses his tools, he is out of luck and will have to replace them himself. A father should never share tools with his kid, it just makes bad blood. My father actually would misplace his own tools, but instead of admitting it he would simply blame me. He is a very Dis-organized person .. That's why I take the effort to keep all my tools cleaned and organized.
I remember speaking with him one time and saying how much easier it is to have sockets separated by size, unlike what he does where his are organized by SAE and Metric (tons of sockets in each drawer). He got mad at me, told me I was calling him a slob. I was simply trying to make a suggestion to him on how I organize my tools because if you need a 10mm socket, instead of searching for 20 minutes in a full drawer of 5mm - 30mm sockets you can look for the label (10 MM) and grab it.
Ugh. We still dont get a long. lol