OP-
Somewhere above you commented about 'its all buried'... but it sounds like you have conduit with individual conductors- GOOD NEWS. If there is enough room, pull the 3 wires out, add a ground wire (this can be TWO sizes smalller, IIRC) and pull them back into place. No digging.
IMO, even if something doesnt require inspection, the work still needs to meet code. Just because a county has no inspections, it is no excuse for builders and their subcontractors to do ****.
Also, be careful with your builder. If he is like most, he is trying to cover his a$$. While he may sound like he is on your side, if the electrician is his sub, he is almost surely conflicted. Make sure your inspector is working for you.
and yeah, two rods out at the shop. Thats gonna be the easiest part of this!