Not sure about auto oils and could not find anything quickly, but Aeroshell aviation piston oils do not have a published shelf life... "AeroShell W Oils are inherently stable in storage. Providing that they have been stored and handled correctly, prolonged storage does not have any effect on their quality, properties or performance."
There is not much difference from aircraft to automotive oils. One main difference is that aircraft oil does not have zinc in it, an excellent wear additive, but causes problems in aircraft engines due to the higher heat of an aircooled engine.
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