I am usually pretty good at filtering through the trash that makes up much of the Internet, but when I read that even USG recommends the use of 1-1/4” screws up to 5/8” drywall for increased resistance to screw pops that’s when I started second guessing.
You probably won't have issues with a longer screw as a DIYer doing a smaller job. Nothing wrong with listening to "never had a problem" but its good to make decisions armed with the right info to start with . . . . .
USG handbook I believe is the bible of drywall. Like a recipe on the back of a food box, manufacturers have researched and tested the proper way for their product to work.
Using too long of fasteners can ("can," not always) be less consistent in driving straight and be susceptible to have more pops. As USG states, the Forest Products Lab and Purdue University studied the length of nails where lumber shrinkage causes pops. When shrinkage occurs, a gap is formed between the wood and drywall. Using the shortest possible nail, while still having adequate holding power, kept this gap smaller and lessened pops. Using a screw instead of a nail lessens pops to begin with, but you can interpolate that a too-long screw, having even more holding power, and especially when installed at a slight angle, will have more stress applied to the screw and may result in a pop.
So for wood attachment USG calls for Type W (coarse) 1 1/4" screws for 3/8", 1/2", and 5/8" gypsum board.
Also 1/2" lightweight drywall is not delicate, it is stiffer and rated to span 24" o.c. It's not a special Home Depot product of lesser quality, it was first created by USG and now that manufacturers have equivalent fire ratings available, "lightweight" will probably become the only products available in the future.