Wow what an amazing thread. As a newer GJ addict, I think this is the first time I've seen this thread, not sure how I missed it though, I love gallery threads.
So a few things I want to mention. First and probably least noteworthy, is that I think your barndominium is amazing. Having a play place like that is truly a little slice of heaven!
Next is your Son. All I can say is that I will certainly keep him in my thoughts. He sounds like a great kid with a great attitude, you have a lot to be proud of. A strong family will get you through anything, for this I have no doubt.
And lastly, once your Son is well (he will be) this is a rare case where I might actually be able to offer something useful to you. I don't work on cars or build houses or anything, despite my efforts... But I do have a burning passion for making knives and blacksmithing. I'm no pro and I've only been at it for about 4 years, but I've been fortunate to have had the privilege of training with some of the best out there and acquiring some fantastic tools.
I'm going to start a thread in the gallery soon, showing my attempt at turning my humble 30x40 into a knifemaking shop-mahal and will report back. Might give your Son something to look at and I'll keep in touch. When the day comes please PM me and we can chat over the phone about all things knifemaking. And if you or your Son are ever in Ohio you're both welcome to a shop tour. If I don't destroy the place in my efforts to upgrade it
-Clint