Trey, a few things.
What exact product are you using?
Is it 100% solids? If yes, you will most likely need a 45:1 or 56:1 airless sprayer with a .019-.033 tip.
You will also need to backroll. Spraying 100% solids in MOST cases is merely a means to transfer the material to substrate. The only time (I've seen) you wouldn't back roll 100% solids epoxy is on the interior of potable water tanks BECAUSE IT'S BEING SPRAYED ON AT 16-40+ MILS
Have you contacted the manufacturer and asked for their recommendation for which thinner to use? I've never seen MEK used to thin epoxy, only urethanes.
Common thinners are XYLENE, MIBK (METHYL ISOBUTYL KETONE), TOLUENE, and ETHYL BENZENE among others. There are different thinners for different products. 1 thinner might be 15% Ethyl Benzene and 85% Xylene. Another might be a mixture of 2 or 3 of them. I highly recommend contacting Epoxy-Coat.
Surface preparation: Since these are steel the best preparation would be an SSPC-SP6 Commercial Blast Cleaning. If this is 100% solids is has damn near no penetration. It's needs a rough surface to adhere to.
If an SSP6 cannot be achieved I would suggest a SSPC-SP3 Power Tool Cleaning, meaning "Removes all loose mill scale, loose rust, loose paint, and other loose detrimental foreign matter by power wire brushing, power sanding, power grinding, power tool chipping, and power tool descaling."
Do not use a standard grinding wheel. That will only leave you with a smooth surface that epoxy will not adhere to. I like to use a wire wheel then go back and make a
cross hatch pattern using 50-60 grit sandpaper then solvent wipe.
If you have any questions please ask way!