i smell a rat here.
the op is complaining about a problem yet won't tell anyone what it is. if you call them and they refuse to listen, won't help you or refuse to remedy the situation in any way shape or form then you have a complaint.
so my opinion is either.
a. shut your trap until you talk to them.
b. quit beating around the bush and being vague so we can help you or give you advice
people make mistakes, business's make mistakes, everyone makes mistakes and until you have given them a chance to remedy it or explain it you are just stirring the pot and not in a good way.
i have a buddy who says customer service is not whether you get everything right, it is how you handle what goes wrong. causing a stink without allowing them a chance to make right is terribly wrong.
edit because post 15 makes me angry
1.why muddy the waters with facts? really?
2.you don't need the members to pass judgement? why they hell did you bring it up then?
3.you talk about wanting to return items but then say it isn't about returning items? wtf?
what a messed up post. if you think hje is as great a company as you claim why would you mention any of it before contacting them in some shape or form?
too many people these days are afraid to pick up a phone and talk to someone. i call epsteins's on a regular basis. if i have a question, i call, they walk upstairs, down the hall or down the basement and pick it up. they then return to the phone and tell me what they have. for some reason, knowing those guys, this whole thing disturbs me deeply as they would not knowingly mislead someone.