Don't know what happened to the OP, but... I can tell you exactly what happened to me.
I always use filter sockets, and either a 3/8" ratchet wrench or 3/4" combo wrench to loosen them, depending on how much room I have to play with.
The problem is two-fold. I've been using PureOne oil filters since 2000. In the old says, the metal was thick, and the chrome was straight. LoL! The last few years, however, Purolator has been making the shell thinner n' thinner. That's the first part of the problem.
The second part is, those (supposedly) "PTFE treated sealing gaskets" are stickier than a mofo! A thin coat of oil doesn't do jack! I pull the gasket out of the groove and coat it with Lubriplate -- and those SOBs still weld themselves to the block!
Anyway, back to the story...
I used a carbon fiber filter socket and 3/8" ratchet wrench, like I've been doing for 12 years, and as soon as I turned the filter, the sides wrinkled and caved in, like a beer can. No kidding! And, I didn't put that much pressure on it. At the same time, it deformed the top of the filter, so none of my other sockets would grab it either. Strap wrenches just slipped, and caved it in even more.
At that point, we were off to the races, in a hail of cursing! Heh!
I'm seriously considering switching to a different manufacturer, after all these years. Their filter media is still the best, IMO, but the shells **** big time!
Sort of like when you go to the dentist and he tells you, "Your teeth are fine, but your gums need to go." You know?