I have an 05 with 55k on it and I am waiting to tackle this. My friend just did his at 85k and didn't break any. He followed the latest TSB by using Motorcraft Carb cleaner, breaking them loose an 1/8 of a turn and soaking over night. He had the lisle tool on hand just in case.
Maybe there's something magic about the MC carb cleaner or maybe your friend got lucky. I don't know.
In my earlier post, I said I followed the TSB to the letter. What I actually did was read and re-read all three revisions of the TSB multiple times and used a "composite" of the three, going above and beyond on each step.
I started off early in the morning with a stone-cold engine and used Aero Kroil after breaking the plugs 1/8 turn. I let 'em sit 3 hours, "wiggled" 'em and gave 'em another shot of Kroil. I wasn't worried about hydraulic lock, because I knew I was going to spin the engine over with all the plugs removed before I put everything back together. Waited 2 more hours, wiggled 'em some more and that's when the breaking began.
The Lisle tool is great though. You just have to get the "feel" right when using the extractor piece in order to engage enough threads in the broken plug piece without wringing the end of the tool off. I've heard of that happening.
I also used great care with a strong flashlight and a mirror to make sure I vacuumed all shards of porcelain out of the spark plug wells before I did the final extraction, so no chips would fall down into the cylinder.
FWIW, if anybody is in the South Metro Atlanta area and doesn't want to tackle this job themselves, I can do it. Just PM me.