Most lift manufacturers require a minimum slab thickness of 4+ inches and 3000 psi so you should be fine there but it wouldn't hurt to check the specs of a few brands you are considering.
Control joints prevent ugly random shrinkage cracks you can see by hiding them in the bottom of straight, orderly cuts where you can't. Since lift posts can't be bolted down within a certain distance to a control joint (or crack), they will limit potential lift locations so plan carefully.
You could forego control joints entirely but in a 40x60 slab, shrinkage cracks are pretty likely and if you're unlucky, a random crack could prevent you from putting your lift where you want it.
As mentioned previously, the wire mesh you are installing doesn't do anything to prevent cracks, it simply holds them together after they occur. If you install the wire properly it will keep cracks tight and flush, which is especially important if you don't cut control joints.
Give my Guide to Floor Slabs in the link below for some additional thoughts on placing a slab.