Yeah I'm about to give up and call someone I guess. I tested today and I do not have power to them. It sounds like the AFCI's are in the wrong place as well since they are not for the bedrooms. I think that someone made the same assumption that some people on here did that they had to be when labeling. So at the very least I guess those need to be swapped, but then I guess I'll need to either replace the outside outlets with GFCI ones or GFCI breakers. What a mess.
Don't give up yet! You are bigger than this problem! It sounds like you really need to map out which breakers control which receptacles and which light fixtures. If the labels are all wrong as you indicate, take some time and sort it out now. Just get yourself a small table lamp or similar and use that to confirm power at receptacles as you turn ON/OFF breakers. Same with light fixtures except you do not need the lamp. Just draw out a chart on paper and write it down as you confirm. If you use Excel or Numbers, do it on a computer.
If this is a typical production home there are things that must have been part of the original build. There will be AFCI breakers, which you have, and there will be GFCI receptacles. Find them, and assume nothing about what feeds what, but confirm with lamp.
Once all that is done, there are many that can help on this board, but right now too many variables.