I do a lot of cutting in my garage.
I'd use a thin cut off wheel, 5 or 6" to remove as much as you can. Yes on a 4.5" grinder. (I'm not a fan of a 7" or 9" grinder, I've both)
then add a sanding wheel to your grinder, 36-60 grit. For me they work better than a flap wheel. But if money is no object, I use flap wheels.