You might want to take a look at aluminum oxide or ceramic fiber backed sanding discs that use a backing pad, usually made of some type of plastic. There are lots of options for grits and types available. I rarely use a hard wheel for anything anymore since I got on to discs.
Norton is available at Menards and they make a solid product at a good price point. I've also had good luck with Diablo brand abrasives from Home Depot for other tasks, but have not tried their discs for metal work yet. The baddest of the bad is the 3M Cubitron II - you will be amazed at how fast that disc will knock down material and how long it will last. They are pricey and you'll probably have to get them online or through a weld supply company - maybe play around with Nortons to see what you like first, and then try out the Cubitron's.