Hiball,
Thanks so much for taking to time to correct my mistakes! I appreciate the help very much.
I did in fact read both of Elroy's threads, several times, but it seems that some nuances of assembly either were skipped or I did not comprehend them. To recap your post:
A.) Isn't OEM, so probably was introduced by PO. I noticed on Elroy's build he introduced a copper washer - would you recommend that or just torque down till it doesn't leak?
B.) Great, got one right.

C.) Good to know. That nut holding the Star wheel seems difficult to get off, perhaps because it rotates with the wrench. If you think I should use that packing, how would you recommend I do so? I'm thinking spanner and a socket, or gently in my wood faced vise to hold it steady without crushing.
D.) Per your own posting, I've left the cylinder alone. It seems fine.

So If I don't remove it, do I do anything with that cylinder seal? I didn't see on on the jack when I took it apart.
E.) This, and the pump seal, look very different from the originals. I've taken more pictures, below, but basically the original had a significant countersink cut in it, but the new one is just plain flat:
The new seal has a raised lip profile to it, and four concentric circles raise on the end that has the raised lip, while the other side is flat.
The old one has a much less pronounced lip to it. It is fairly smooth. Internally, on one side, it has a countersink profile with a slightly larger concentric ring where it met the shaft. The washer fit inside that countersink and the nut tightened on it.
Given how different this hardware is, do I have the correct seal?
F. and G.) Ok, so these go together. If you say replace, I replace.

Pull the old seal out with a dental pick or equivalent?
H.) I know where it goes, my question is whether the convex side of the dimples ride against the packing or if the packing goes against the concave side of the dimples.
Thanks again for your help!!!
Regards,
Andrew M. Lewis