This.
A few years go, I had a terrible problem with TIG that I just couldn't fix- every weld was contaminated no matter how well I cleaned it. I tried what I thought was everything I had learned after many years of welding, both as a professional and as a hobbyist.
I finally put my humble shirt on and called the local welding shop for help. Ultimately they sent out one of their welding troubleshooters to my garage. He checked out the equipment and pronounced it OK, then tried to do a test weld.
Same result as me. Ha!
Then he brought out his portable tungsten sharpener, and made a new point. Suddenly he (and I!) could weld just fine.
He explained that the grinding wheel I'd been using had been contaminated, and every time I sharpened a new tip, I was just moving the contaminates onto the new tungsten.
I bought the same sharpener he had, and have never had the problem since.
This isn't to say you can't use a grinding wheel-- I used to use one for many years. But it does show how easy it is to get a contaminated grinding wheel and completely ruin your tungstens.
Here's a link to what I'm using now:
Sharpie DX Tungsten grinder