I'm not sure exactly what you are asking here. A nailer will never get close to needing 4.1scfm unless you are using it machine-gun-style. The smallest compressor will operate an air nailer just fine. That's one really nice thing about nailers - you can get away with a very small, lightweight compressor when using them.
For continuous-use high-flow tools such as sanders, grinders, cut-off wheels, etc you will want the largest compressor you can afford. Something with at least 12-15scfm @90psi. Sand blasting cabinets often will use even more than this.
Now you can get away with using a smaller compressor with a die grinder or other high-cfm tool, if you are willing to accept the fact that the compressor will be running continuously, you will have to stop and let the compressor catch up (esp. if it's a light-duty one as it will overheat if run continuously), and you will get a lot of moisture out of the tool's exhaust.
My '5HP' (actually about 3HP) 60-gallon single-stage compressor will not even run one high-cfm air tool very successfully - the pressure will drop to about 85psi and it will run continuously. This despite the fact that the compressor claims it will deliver 11scfm at 90psi and the tool claims it only needs 4scfm. You know that both numbers are lies (they use tank volume to lie on the compressor side, and very inefficient air motor uses far more air than claimed on the tool side).
Does this help any?