Good tips. The most important one being that the solder will flow toward the applied heat, even if that's "uphill".
Your brain wants to heat the spot where the solder will be introduced. Ignore it. Heat the joint from the far side, and when the whole joint is hot enough, you'll be able to add solder that will wick deep into the joint instead of puddling around the seam. In other words, you heat the area evenly and keep the hot spot away from the actual visible seam where you'll add the solder.
The 'wipe with a leather work glove' trick works too. I haven't used a wet rag because I didn't want to cool the joint too fast, but I've been guilty of the work-glove trick before.
Remember, a little bit too hot is much better than a little bit too cold. Cold joints are bad.
