"Even a wire brush is harsher (though a wire brush is still safer than an abrasive)."
Ah yes, and "wire brush" can mean a lot of things.
Coarse or fine, brass, steel, or stainless steel.
Wire brush, or wire wheel.
One pet peeve of mine is seeing rust that has been burnished with a brush.
Or a surface that has taken on a texture, due to a high rpm wire wheel.
On a bench grinder, I find I need a coarser wire wheel to knock off thicker rust (with light pressure), then follow that with a fine one to finish the job... or get it ready for a next step.
A small wire wheel put in the drill press at ~500 rpm is very effective too, but not for tables....
I have to disagree about the need for a blade to be sharp, to shave rust. I usually touch mine up a few times while doing a larger surface. I do agree it does not need to be sharp like a knife. A ninety degree angle would even work, but 'sharp' edges really speed up the process.
I think that is where we can get into trouble. Trying to speed up the process too much and reaching for power tools, when they are not really needed.
0000 steel wool is awesome stuff. Messy, but awesome.
-Tom