I'll refer to the HOA thread that just got deleted a few minutes earlier.
I reported it today
However when I saw it yesterday there was an earlier post that really bothered me...as I looked at this last night, I was thinking "reply"? "report"? "what will go on with this"? I did nothing last night, but it was troubling me.
Why was it troubling?
Becuase the contents of that post was a 'slight' against the 'other tribe'. Not overly political, but touching on the social/tribal aspects that float just under the surface here....
And here is where it gets dicey, and I really want this to be constructive...
We know that politics AND social interactions are highly charged these days: law and order; Second Amendment; blue vs white collar; red state/blue state; Libs; american flags; NFL kneeling.
One of the things I liked (past tense) about GJ was that it was a place for all of us to gather and talk about 'stuff'- irrespective of the size of the garage, your toys, your net worth. You know, that old "pull up a chair and get to know each other" thread...
For a time it felt like GJ was insulated.
But it really isnt. The management and the moderation clearly has a bend in what is acceptable, and which 'tribe' they tend towards. Cracks about libs, LBGT, gay ACLU lawyers get a yuck. Comments about 'flag threads not being a great idea as they tend to highlight the tribal conflict in our society' are ignored. (not even the courtesy of a reply)
Maybe it is my misperception, but folks can come out WAY over the line on one side, and when folks push back just a bit, mods tend towards a certain decision.
I do trust that these comments in this post are NOT viewed as a disrespectful attack on moderation. (yes, it is a commentary and gripe on it, but seeking a better community.) This stuff is hard: mods dont grow on trees; Mods come with their own view; there is no central decider nor central control... I just bring this up so we can discuss, and perhaps realize that when you 'side' with one tribe it is, tacitly, an affront to the other tribe.
And finally, instead of deleting the thread and not leaving any guidance, it would be better to say "this is unacceptabe- leave yor politics and social commentary at the door" Someone tests you, ban them for a week AND make it clear they are in time our.
But by leaving up the content it establishes a signpost for all to see what is acceptable behaviour.
IME moderating that sets a tone and example so all can see is much more effective than delete/ban/secret.
My 2 cents. Delete at will. But no ban please...
