gatewaysysop
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I always let everyone in the neighborhood know when I move in that I expect very little from them. They mind their business, I mind mine, you need help, you call, I need help, I call. Other than that, I don't want to know them socially. A good friend can become a bad enemy in short order. I don't want them living next door when that happens.
Absolutely agree, especially on this part. Had one of the few neighbor's that I talk with (very rarely) once tell me that the other people in our neighborhood don't really know what to make of me and the wife since we keep to ourselves. I told him I mind my own business and leave them alone and expect them to do the same.
He did tell me once that if I needed to borrow anything, to give him a call, but he's not the type of person I'd want to borrow anything from and I've never taken him up on the offer.

It's funny, I have lots of coworkers who probably never turned a wrench in their life but I'd be willing to let them borrow most anything they needed. My neighbors? Not a snowball's chance in hell.






