
Heres another moral conundrum, do you think its fair when a seller lists an item at a price, and then goes back on that offer and jacks the price up?
Around 18 months ago I sold my car, an ae86 corolla. I had only paid $1100 for it around 3 years prior, so I put it up for sale at $900 on a car forum without even checking the prices. Unbeknownst to me in that time the car had appeared in a certain japanese cartoon, and examples similar to mine were going for upwards of $4000. I had about 8 offers to buy it when I checked my ad the next day, so I adjusted my price to include the "takumi tax" and sold it 5 days later for $3450.
Prior to sale, I offered it at this price to the bloke who had been the first to respond to my advert and he was not happy at all, explaining that it was his god-given right to purchase an item at the price it has been advertised for, and that it was a **** move to up your price no matter how undervalued you have put it at. I replied with something like "I'm sorry for getting you excited at the prospect of making money at the expense of myself now kindly f$%# off" and he got real ****** and sent me a bunch of angry messages and texts and I'm pretty sure he egged my house.
I feel that just as buyers can offer less than the original asking price, sellers can increase there price if they feel they can get more for the item. For some reason its seen as less acceptable than it is for a buyer to make a lower offer on an item though
. . .Bottom line, trying to prove anyone making a lowball offer is the same as stealing money from a kid.
jack vines
'cept it ain't illegal between consenting adults![]()
So when I bought a toolbox that usually sells used for +$1500 for $800 because the tech was out of work and was losing the house the next day did it make me a bad person with no sense of right or wrong or a conscience?
The way I see it I helped him, he needed it gone and he needed money to take care of his family. Would I have been a better person if I didn't buy it?
I low-ball, I don't have any trouble sleeping at night because of it.![]()
. . .Yes, we can ALL find instances where we have helped someone with our purchase. But if you had offered him $100 (for the $1500 box) then I would have a few more descriptive words for your character than can be said in mixed company.
As Hiball and others have said, I don't have a problem with low-ballers, I ignore them.
But what many of you guys are attempting to justify is greed. I really hate to dance on you parade but when you take advantage of someone who is down and out and needing money real bad, then you have NO ETHICS WHEN YOU MAKE A COUNTER OFFER OF TEN CENTS ON THE DOLLAR HE IS OFFERING. Get IT?
And if you guys try to sell me anything, I'm not buying, and that also means your justifications of taking advantage of people. Thanks for posting your nick names for us all.
I'm outta here, enough said, I'm tired of repeating myself to people who have no business ethics whatsoever. And you guys are probably the biggest complainers of the recent financial debacle which was based in greed of both buyers and sellers. There's a real life example for ya. Get it yet?
Steve
What it comes down to is you are against free will.
I'm NOT even going to read the rest of that. You are using a strawman argument that has nothing to do with what I said. You are probably the worst of the bunch. Thanks again for posting your nick and beliefs so we can all avoid you like the plague.
Steve

You guys think to much of this, a low ball is nothing more than offering what you are willing to pay.

Are we done here?
Robert Kobayashi, who has written many investment books, says that he uses the lowball often to find out who is really willing to deal. For example, when buying real estate, he would simply lowball offer on 20 properties at the same time. He would get out right rejected on 18 of them, but perhaps 2 would counteroffer. Those two counteroffers would be where the best deals were going to be. Conversely, he has said that there has been times he just wanted to dump a property and would seriously take any offer. Any at all.
I think the lowball is certainly an effective probing technique when you know there are many sellers and not many buyers. It's just used to find out if the seller is desperate. If you got a low ball offer accepted, it wasnt because you were a great negotiator, it's more likely that the seller really wanted to get rid of it.
I would be skeptical of anything Kiyosaki claims. His stories change almost monthly.
http://www.johntreed.com/Kiyosaki.html
Coach
I offer no defense of Kiyosaki, but I sure wouldn't use John Reed as proof.
Is it my tie? I knew I should have picked a different tie.
Great discussion, thanks everyone. Very informative.
The seller is the one that can get mad, accept, or graciously decline the offer. In the end the seller has all the power.
The balance of power shifts to the seller if they're selling something desirable by the marketplace and for a good price as defined by the marketplace. If a buyer falls in love with something...a house for example...and has to have it, then their advantage is pretty much gone. The seller can practically choose the terms on which they sell their item at that point.
it's a business transaction, don't make it emotional....
Lowballing in my opinion is offering significantly less than an item is worth.
As an example if a wrench set is for sale that retails new for $400 and generally sells used for $200 a $75 offer would be a lowball offer regardless of the seller asking $300 for the set or $100
I don't have any issues with lowball offers, the way I see it, if I'm selling something and need money I want to see and be able to consider every offer on the item because even if it's worth say $200, $75 is a heck of a lot better than $0 if there's no other interest.
Only thing I have a problem with are people who get too emotionally invested in their sales and are easily offended by offers.
I respect sales with "firm" prices and will not make offers, but if an item is OBO I'll happily make whatever offer makes sense for me.
I'll give you $0.01 for your $0.02.

Quite the heated discussion here, wow.
I have trouble understanding how some people think that a seller accepting a buyer's offer, by their own free will, is morally wrong. If the buyer had every opportunity to research the item in question, set their price, and accept OR decline all offers, how does morality come into play?
An exception, IMHO, is if you feel/know that the seller is incapable of thinking for themselves as a consenting adult, and you are taking advantage of that (ie a child, a drunk/drugged individual, or perhaps a senior citizen who "isn't all there"). If you know, by your own individual judgement, that you are taking advantage of the other party because they are not capable of thinking clearly, that's morally wrong, according to *my* moral compass.
Otherwise, offer whatever you want, but understand the potential consequences of a lowball offer -- the buyer may be insulted, may choose not sell you the item at any price, and people on the internet may question your moral character![]()