Actually the DOE has "vent free" sizing guidelines. In Zone V, which is Michigan in an average constructed home with a thermostatic controlled vent free 99.9% efficient would require 3.85/cu ft. So 4800 cu ft=18,480 btu. The trouble with VF fireplaces is that they are consistently oversized. 18,000 btu in an exposed flame looks like two Bic lighters on low. Big flame sells, so most VF fireplaces are 30kbtu or over. The key to success in vent free appliances is to keep them clean especially the pilot assembly and to provide adequate combustion air. As to moisture, yes VF adds moisture, but in cold climates the air cannot hold moisture. I know that when I lived in NY or New England my wooden chairs began falling apart in January, so some ambient moisture is a good thing. Look at how many humidifiers are sold in the N to offset the dryness.
Properly sized, installed and operated VF appliances are good and safe. I do not like the fireplaces, but there are millions of them installed in the States. VF appliances are approved as "Supplemental Space Heating Applinaces". Once you buy it you get to define "Supplemental". I am a vented heater guy by training and inclination so I think vented is the way to go, but at an increased cost. You can run the vented product all day long if you please